"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Turned off by "tricks"

mtlwlu

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A girl recently told me, she was interested, until she started thinking I knew "tricks" as in different techniques to game a girl. Anyone else encounter a similar problem where a girl assumes youre trying to manipulate her, when in reality youre just trying a different approach to what theyre use to?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Rex Man

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Did you have a pocket watch dangling from your fingers with a menacing glare? No? Well then yeah, you might sound a bit scripted and unnatural.
 

Sandow

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stop trying to impress her. like ur a freakin magician or something. she likes you, just be real dude.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alphamale1821

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if ur following something like mystery method, which involves learning seduction like a mathematics formula using switches, gimmicks and canned lines it's no wonder she called you out.

The best game is natural game. Just develop confidence and go natural. When your a newbie you should focus on natural game first and only rely on "tricks" when your in a tight spot for a last resort. Like Sandow said " just BE REAL" YOU.
 
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