"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I committed to a girl but i think i made a mistake. She never had sex before and she doesnt know how to french kiss...its such a turn off. I dont know what to do. .i think she fell for me already and i dont wanna hurt her saying i dont feel anything for u. i dont know what to do. please help.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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In which way did you commit, please? How is her inexperience a turnoff for you- I don't really get it. Again the irony, how we are trying to get women to fall for us, and then it actually happens and we have no idea how to fix it.
 
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Bro be a man and just ditch her. You'll only end up treating her like 5hit because of the frustration. Just tell her you made a grave error hell tell her you're gay if you have to just get the fork out of there pronto! This 5hit will only mess you up. You sound young so don't make the same mistake I did.
 
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Get rid of her and tell its cos she's a bad kisser, she'd probably tell you if it was the other way around.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's funny you mentioned she didn't know how to kiss. My last onitis was pretty attractive, and slept I think she told me with 11 guys which is prob half of her actual..and two long term relationships. When I was sleeping with her.. she didn't seem to know how to french kiss either. she'd spin her god damn tongue around like a helicopter propeller super fast.. I remember i did that my first time kissing a girl..

I guess it doesn't really matter how inexperienced or experienced she is.. There is always the possibility of an awkward moment when one doesn't know how to french kiss... But hey if shes good everywhere else who cares, they are trainable.
 
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