"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Turn my life around

yungahdubz

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I recently encountered a life changing experience and realized that ... life is just to short, so I'm going to do everything in my power to turn my life around, I'm going to live life to its fullest. I know what I've posted sounds cheesy but what I've said is what I'm going to do.

My first Step of changing my life is to start the journey of becoming a DJ :). I like the idea of turning in to a DJ as he has all the character traits that I want to have. I want you guys to to help me to become more:
Charasmatic
Confident
Charming
A better conversationalist

I've read the bible but I'm asking you as you'll probably be able to explain in more depth and talk about past experiences etc.

I want you guys to help me turn my life aorund :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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eminence

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no one can help you, this kind of thinking is why you currently are a loser. do it yourself.
 

GaryUranga

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hmmm I'll post a longer post later but for now I'll just tell you that go with what the site teaches even if you arent 100% sure of what youre doing because itll always come naturally, yoll have some breakthroughs and such
 

Brighty

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yungahdubz said:
I recently encountered a life changing experience and realized that ... life is just to short, so I'm going to do everything in my power to turn my life around, I'm going to live life to its fullest. I know what I've posted sounds cheesy but what I've said is what I'm going to do.

My first Step of changing my life is to start the journey of becoming a DJ :). I like the idea of turning in to a DJ as he has all the character traits that I want to have. I want you guys to to help me to become more:
Charasmatic
Confident
Charming
A better conversationalist

I've read the bible but I'm asking you as you'll probably be able to explain in more depth and talk about past experiences etc.

I want you guys to help me turn my life aorund :)

Well that's one of your problems, your too lazy to do it yourself. If you've had this whole life changing experience and you want to be a DJ, you have to help yourself; we can't help you. Read the bible and everything it has to offer and you can change your life, not us.
 
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