"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I'M LISTENING TO THIS RIGHT NOW, I JUST THOUGHT I POST IT HERE.....

I GOT IT IN A EMAIL.


For years people have been asking where they can get audio and video of me so
they can attach a face and a voice to the stories. In the last two days I've
done both, so here you go:

This is me on "The Big Story" with John Gibson, being interviewed about my book:
http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/tucker_on_the_big_story_-_51005.phtml


This is me, Maddox (maddox.xmission.com) and DrunkasaurusRex (drunkrex.com) on
Sirius. They are thinking about giving us a show, and this was our tryout two
hours:
http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/the_mp3_of_our_sirius_show.phtml


On a side note, I will be out in LA from May 25th to June 10th (and I'll be
giving a speech at UCLA on May 30th or 31st). Ladies, you know the drill--email
me if you are hot and want to hang out:
http://www.tuckermax.com/archives/entries/may_26_-_june_10_la.phtml
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tucker Max is the man. Not only his funny stories, the way he truly lives the life he wants and not only succeeds, he is doing better than people who go the traditional route.
 

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Stud said:
Tucker Max is the man. Not only his funny stories, the way he truly lives the life he wants and not only succeeds, he is doing better than people who go the traditional route.
You know that the dude did nothing to get where he is. He got all his money from mommy and daddy.

But yeah I agree, the stories (if true) are funny as hell.
 

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Monster said:
You know that the dude did nothing to get where he is. He got all his money from mommy and daddy.

But yeah I agree, the stories (if true) are funny as hell.
He doesn't use his law degree at all. He put up his site in college on his own accord. Mom and Dad's $$$$ had nothing to do with it. His site pulls in about 10-15 grand a month from ads alone, and his book sales pull in a sizeable amount as well.

Having met the guy, I gotta say he's a pretty decent guy. With a penchant for being irresponsible, and documenting it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Monster said:
You know that the dude did nothing to get where he is. He got all his money from mommy and daddy.

He put up a website and single-handedly built it to the second most visited single person run website on the internet, second to Maddox. He did this after he went to law school and decided he didn't want to be a lawyer and after he got fired from HIS DAD'S restaurant. I don't see how his parents money has anything to do with where he is. Did his dad pay a better writer to go do all that stuff and write about it?

I met him on his booktour as well, he is indeed a cool guy. Listen to his radio show and watch that news clip, he's 100% who he says he is.
 

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All I know is that I laugh (a lot) when reading his stories, I couldn't give a shyt how he got there or where he came from.
 
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Watching that news clip again i noticed that the chick doing the interview was blushing a little....
 

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You AFC's are always looking for heros.
 
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hey, some people are born with it, others have to work all their lives to get it (if they ever get it....)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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