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[AntoniousIV]

We texted last night a little

 

[AntoniousIV]

Is this disrespect should I confront her for this?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Direct works in the right context. The best players adapt to the situation and choose the most effective approach to maximize their odds.

I agree.

I use any of the 3 variations of Mode One, based on the situation.

After all, most communication happens through body language and subtle signals, not spoken words.

Yeah, but perceived body language and subtle signals can be misleading.

So, instead of being mislead; just tell the woman what your thinking, and remove all doubt.

Telling someone you want to suck their tits when you meet them, for example, is a blunt and misguided form of directness.

It's only misguided to a man (you) who cares what the woman thinks.

I don't.

And you are wrong, as its very guided.

It is a shiit test that I give to women, and I'll know if she is for me, based on her reaction.

Plus, it is actually arousing to me when I tell a woman my sexual desires towards her.

So, everything is ultimately based on my satisfaction, not the hers.
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That said, direct game just ain't for you.

It is for the bold, the brave, the wolves.

The reason you ain't rocking with it, is because you ain't a wolf.

The shiit I preach only resonates with wolves.

You have good game just need to finesse it a little.

You need more of a rougher edge.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Is this disrespect should I confront her for this?

No. Text her “I’ll be right there. See you soon”.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

@AntoniousIV

Let's have a look at this..

I don’t know. @We_ArE_VeNOM said to be straight up with her before you do all of this.

Maybe tell her you want to sleep with her via text before you meet up with her and see if she complies.

Now, as you can see, this guy is being sarcastic here.

He is making a mockery of my direct method.

But, let's use some simple logic and reasoning.

Question..

This woman, would you take her out on a date (paying for her dinner/drinks), if you knew she had no sexual interests in you?

No, correct?

So, why not see if she has sexual interests in you, beforeeee you take her out on a date?

Ahhh, makes sense, doesn't it?

Think, think.



Now, the only way you're going to know if she has sexual interests in you, is if you bring up the subject of sex to her.

I'll just let that sink in before I go further, if I proceed at all.

I can already tell you are being influenced more by these indirect puppies, so I'll just let you rock out with them.

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

I'm advising a noobie not to do the dumb sh** you recommend, I care about HIS improvement, not YOUR ego.

If you cared about his improvement, you will, generally speaking, give him advice that caters towards him not wasting his time and money on women that may not be interested in him.

That's what I'm doing.

All you guys are doing is giving him the same run-of-the-mill bullshiit that offers no confidence or male empowerment, in a game where women have always had most of the power.

It is disgusting, actually.

Which, again, is why I didn't tag you. If this dude goes to college and approaches women the way you suggest he will quickly develop a very unpopular reputation - with both men and women.In either case, I'm done responding to you, anything that challenges the tenets of your God-King Alan Roger Currie always ends up like this with you...

I can tell you don't know what you are talking about...because college is the perfect place to be direct...especially in 2025.

And it's ironic you mention Alan Roger Currie, because if you know his story, it was in college where his Mode One methods were tested and proven!!

He was in college and he had a bunch of indirect, naysayer ass friends (like you guys) who thought it was impossible for him to pull chicks with his direct method...until they saw him in action and they were struck with complete awe...that that shiit can actually work.

Anyways, see you in traffic.

 

[BPH]

@AntoniousIV, follow his advice, actually type exactly what he wrote in this post to her and let us know how it worked.

Holy hell...I stopped reading his suggestions and never saw that. @AntoniousIV whatever you do, Jesus Christ do NOT even think about sending something that stupid.

EDIT: Oh, it's part of a different post, that's why I didn't see it.

I think part of the reason I do so well is because guys like him are my competition, so they disqualify themselves by saying weird sh** like that.

We texted last night a little

Is this disrespect should I confront her for this?

Ok, look...I think this is dead in the water...you're doing everything wrong and the way she's texting you is way too comfortable. "N**** what", "im at class dude", and then you're looking for validation asking what's cute about you and saying you've got "inner light"...

You made the plan, you should've texted her to confirm and then to meet. You shouldn't be having these stupid conversations aside from responding to her if she contacts you.

Couple that with the fact that you set up a date at like 3:30PM and you're asking us how to move in the direction of sex...you posted this a few hours ago so I'm assuming you either already went on/she flaked on/are in the middle of this "date".

Let us know how it went I suppose, I'd have advised you not to bother, but if you did decide to waste your time here hopefully you at least had the balls to go for the kiss - and ideally stopped wasting your time if she rejected it.

 

[AntoniousIV]

Yes, have some balls next time and kiss her.

Ok so I went for the kiss. She just dodged. And said: "I'm sorry, I think we should leave".
Then while we were leaving she said : " I wont be mad if you dont come tommorow".

 

[BPH]

Ok so I went for the kiss. She just dodged. And said: "I'm sorry, I think we should leave".
Then while we were leaving she said : " I wont be mad if you dont come tommorow".

Ok cool.

Now you forget she exists and learn to talk to other women.

 

[AntoniousIV]

Ok cool.

Now you forget she exists and learn to talk to other women.

About the talk to other women part. What do you suggest?

Go outside and cold approach or you've got another idea?

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

He's a the typical man child who only dirty women will say yes to his "hey you wanna give me intimacy? I'm desperate for puzzy"

Or..

"I'm so desperate for puzzy, I'll treat a woman to dinner and by her drinks, and hope she'll give me some puzzy at the end of the night."

"I am too much of a verbal coward to tell her I want to have sex with her, but if I spend time with her and build rapport, maybe then she'll like me".

All that muscle, with no heart.

Nobody in their right mind will follow this advice, that's how you become the town creep, like this human being.

No, Mode One is how you become a wolf.

I imagine women whispering in the gym when they see you "here comes the town creep who is desperate" haha very amusing to read your posts.

Or, when I see you..

Me: Say bro, that chick you met online because you are too much of a coward to cold approach, did you smash yet?

You: No, but after 3 dates in, I think she's beginning to warm up to me.

Me:

@AntoniousIV, follow his advice, actually type exactly what he wrote in this post to her and let us know how it worked.

As long as you know where you stand with her, it works.

 

[BPH]

About the talk to other women part. What do you suggest?

Go outside and cold approach or you've got another idea?

You are absolutely clueless with women from what you've shown us. That's ok, you're young.

You need life experience, so just talk to women you're interested in, expect to fail for a while, and be pleasantly surprised when you succeed.

You'll learn from both.

 

[AntoniousIV]

You are absolutely clueless with women from what you've shown us. That's ok, you're young.

You need life experience, so just talk to women you're interested in, expect to fail for a while, and be pleasantly surprised when you succeed.

You'll learn from both.

Is there a good movie/series with a "DJ" main character?

 

[BPH]

Is there a good movie/series with a "DJ" main character?

No...because they're movies and the writers can make whatever they want to work, work.

It's like the joke about Adam Sandler always casts a hot wife for himself in his movies.

If you want to be lazy and not go out into the real world to get life experience, then here's a good playlist to learn from:

The guy was a very overweight, unattractive black comedian who was engaged to a beautiful woman and they'd regularly bring women into the relationship for threesomes. He passed away a few years ago due to diabetes and created this show after having a successful segment about sex and relationships on the Opie and Anthony radio show.

 

[AntoniousIV]

If you want to be lazy and not go out into the real world to get life experience, then here's a good playlist to learn from:

Maybe if you would tell me what I could do in real life I might not be so lazy.

I'll check out the vid though.

 

[BPH]

Maybe if you would tell me what I could do in real life I might not be so lazy.

I'll check out the vid though.

You need some ambition.

You come across as incredibly lazy, asking what to do every step of the way, and defaulting to the lowest-effort option when you don't get an answer ("wanna come over and watch a movie").

You also mention being out of shape and finishing high school, and I assume you have no job.

Go out into the real world. Talk to women. Go to the gym. Get a job and have some goals. Be something other than this person who just wants to get pu*** but doesn't want to put in any of the effort to get it.

 

[AntoniousIV]

You need some ambition.

After I finish think and grow rich, I'll order mastery by Robert Greene. Maybe that'll help with ambition

 

[BPH]

After I finish think and grow rich, I'll order mastery by Robert Greene. Maybe that'll help with ambition

No. You're already on the wrong track. This is what I did.

People think they need to know more than they know now to take action - "analysis paralysis" is a term for this.

Take action and learn as you go.

 

[Clockwerk50]

@AntoniousIV

Let's have a look at this..



Now, as you can see, this guy is being sarcastic here.

He is making a mockery of my direct method.

But, let's use some simple logic and reasoning.

Question..

This woman, would you take her out on a date (paying for her dinner/drinks), if you knew she had no sexual interests in you?

No, correct?

So, why not see if she has sexual interests in you, beforeeee you take her out on a date?

Ahhh, makes sense, doesn't it?

Think, think.

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Now, the only way you're going to know if she has sexual interests in you, is if you bring up the subject of sex to her.

I'll just let that sink in before I go further, if I proceed at all.

I can already tell you are being influenced more by these indirect puppies, so I'll just let you rock out with them.

There's a huge difference between romantic directness like "Let me get your number" or "I'd love to take you out and play footsies" after playful back-and-forth, while gauging the woman's interest level, or even something like "Come to my house, there's no one home" when you've already built a certain rapport, versus "Let's have sex and be intimate next week" out of nowhere to someone you've barely spoken to. OP came here asking for advice on how not to come across as a creep, but you're essentially teaching him how to be one..

 

[We_ArE_VeNOM]

Holy hell...I stopped reading his suggestions and never saw that. @AntoniousIV whatever you do, Jesus Christ do NOT even think about sending something that stupid.

Yeah, just continue paying for dates and getting flaked on...just to come crying on the forum and asking for advice from guys who couldn't pull a date off the calendar.

Just a bunch of weak minded men, from the seekers, to the advisors.

I think part of the reason I do so well is because guys like him are my competition, so they disqualify themselves by saying weird sh** like that.

You are no competition to me, buddy.

If you got to pay for a woman's time and companionship in order to get laid, you can never be in the same stratosphere as me.

The reason why I do so well is, I learned that I can get the puzzy without spending a dime on a woman..while guys like you spend money on women, and STILL don't get the puzzy.

Tsk tsk.