“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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AntoniousIV

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She's not attracted, she just likes the attention, as with all women.
So I should stop going out with them?

I also feel like she's prolly not interested and I'm just deluding myself.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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So I should stop going out with them?

I also feel like she's prolly not interested and I'm just deluding myself.
I wouldn't.

But if you do I would go for the kiss early so I'd find out if she has ANY interest, so I could leave and stop wasting more of my time if she's not.
 

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I wouldn't.

But if you do I would go for the kiss early so I'd find out if she has ANY interest, so I could leave and stop wasting more of my time if she's not.
That sounds good, imma try thanks.
 

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If you want to waste even less of your time, just ask HER out and see if she accepts.
Like ask her to go 1 on 1? I can do that and be like "wanna go out on friday,just me an you". She has the same amount of classes on friday. (she's an exchange student, but still has to take classes)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Like ask her to go 1 on 1? I can do that and be like "wanna go out on friday,just me an you". She has the same amount of classes on friday. (she's an exchange student, but still has to take classes)
Yes...enough of the double date sh**.
 

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Yes...enough of the double date sh**.
She texted me
her: made mac n cheese
"picture of mac n cheese"
Me: Don't have my phone so can't see it
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Just type
me: btw wanna go out on friday, just me and you?

is this good?
 

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Ok I guess I'm overthinking something insignificant. I sent the message, I'll update what happens.
Yeah...you triple quoted me 3 separate times in under 20 minutes...

Say whatever you want, man. At this point it's a learning experience more than it's a date. Everything boils down to whether she's interested or not; if she is you can say damn near anything and she'll accept. If she's not, you can say damn near anything and she'll decline.

I think she'll decline. I'm just telling you what you CAN do IF you want to avoid wasting more of your time on this chick.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Say whatever you want, man. At this point it's a learning experience more than it's a date.
Thanks for saving me so much time man
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I prolly would've been a coward and not kissed her. Or not have the opportunity too. I didn't have an issue with the first kiss with my ex. But with this one I guess I have.

My rationalizaton is that we've never really been in private, is that a good rationalizaiton?
 

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The game is on! Remember not to shoot yourself in the foot, create logistics were a lay is possible.
 

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The game is on! Remember not to shoot yourself in the foot, create logistics were a lay is possible.
I was too excited cus she said yes. I read the sentance fully and understand what you mean. Yeah I'll be making good situations where a lay is possible.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just read @We_ArE_VeNOM ´s posts. He is possibly the most direct player in here
I don't know if I'd suggest that...he's direct but I'd say he's TOO direct...he throws a Hail Mary every play and blows himself out of the water if the girl isn't immediately high-interest.
Yeah, I am a strong advocate of direct game, specifically Mode One.

Mode One has at least 3 variations, and only one of them is hardcore, which is the variation that I use most of the time.

The other two (Mode One Conventional, and Mode 1.5) is less explicit in nature, compared to Mode One Hardcore.

I said all that to say this; if you or the OP find Mode One Hardcore to be too direct (as you describe it), then you could always opt to use either of the other two variations, which are is less explicit and may better suit your fancy.

Leave the Hardcore stuff to the bold. :cool: :devil:

But either way, I'm encouraging men to be direct, nevertheless.
 

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It's disgraceful to be overweight at age 18. You had better get your sh1t together now, or it is never going to happen. Now is the easiest time in your life to get in shape. With every year that passes, it only gets harder. Don't waste being young by being fat. You can turn it around in no time at your age. Seize this opportunity.
 

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Now is the easiest time in your life to get in shape.
You are right brother. I remained skinny fat for most of my childhood because I was scared of ruining my growth or my hormones etc.

But now with that out of the way I'm currently cutting, and once I put my mind on something I complete it. So I'm gonna be lean for summer.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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