Yo I wanna give some guys on another board some helpful tips and things about how to get women(meeting,dating, tryna f*ck, etc.). What would be a good thing to say. What techniques and stuff on this site should I tell them about?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Yo can u give me somethin to copy and paste dog. Or anybody for that matter. It would be much appreciated.Originally posted by Sloopy
Um...why not just direct them to the site? Why take information second hand when you can get it straight from the horse's mouth?
Besides, if you had it internalized you would be able to give them advice without thinking of specific "techniques."
But if you must go that route, I would say to make sure they understand the dynamics of attraction (i.e. why women are attracted to men), the importance of confidence and not supplicating to women, and sh1t testing and how to deal with it.
~Sloopy
Do you want us to hold your hand on your next date as well? :cheer:Originally posted by dadmonson
Yo can u give me somethin to copy and paste dog.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You shouldnt be revealing our secret to everyone. Do you want the world to be full of DJs. Im not afarid of a lil competition but you will make it harder on your self.Originally posted by dadmonson
Yo I wanna give some guys on another board some helpful tips and things about how to get women(meeting,dating, tryna f*ck, etc.). What would be a good thing to say. What techniques and stuff on this site should I tell them about?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Plus there is no magic technique that will get you women.Originally posted by dadmonson
Soembody please help me.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.