Trying too hard to get people to like me

[Crazy Asian]

Hey guys.
I've been trying to make tons of new friends and meet girls.
But I feel like I'm going around in circles and never getting better.
I feel like people just don't want me around.
I think i have too much energy or am awkward in some way.
My good friends always tell me to calm down when i'm in a big group cause i talk too much and have too much energy.
I always feel like people have their own little groups.... and here's me by myself.
I talk to them, and joke around and we are sorta "friends", but it's not just my mentality. I started with thinking that everyone likes me, but the way people treat me now proves otherwise.

There is no specific question, but what are some general pointers to not be an annoying person, or an overly energetic one. I feel like I say stupid ****, but think it's cool. I mean, i honestly believe that I am cool, but people don't treat me like it. They all just kinda ignore me, and I feel like i'm the only one left out.
Advice?
thanks.

 

[xdreamz]

**** the critisism dude. just be kindhearted to people and just be genuinely yourself and people shouldn't mind that you're around. people tell me i think too much, i've even had people tell me i can be annoying cuz i like to bum cigs but honestly they don't matter and it'll show. i'm an unstoppable force of nature and if u don't like me or don't want me around then that's too bad for you because i can find someone easily that will.