"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Trying too hard to get people to like me

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Crazy Asian

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Hey guys.
I've been trying to make tons of new friends and meet girls.
But I feel like I'm going around in circles and never getting better.
I feel like people just don't want me around.
I think i have too much energy or am awkward in some way.
My good friends always tell me to calm down when i'm in a big group cause i talk too much and have too much energy.
I always feel like people have their own little groups.... and here's me by myself.
I talk to them, and joke around and we are sorta "friends", but it's not just my mentality. I started with thinking that everyone likes me, but the way people treat me now proves otherwise.

There is no specific question, but what are some general pointers to not be an annoying person, or an overly energetic one. I feel like I say stupid ****, but think it's cool. I mean, i honestly believe that I am cool, but people don't treat me like it. They all just kinda ignore me, and I feel like i'm the only one left out.
Advice?
thanks.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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**** the critisism dude. just be kindhearted to people and just be genuinely yourself and people shouldn't mind that you're around. people tell me i think too much, i've even had people tell me i can be annoying cuz i like to bum cigs but honestly they don't matter and it'll show. i'm an unstoppable force of nature and if u don't like me or don't want me around then that's too bad for you because i can find someone easily that will.
 
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