Trying to understand girlfriend's "********"

[NaturallySelected]

Hi guys

So me and my grilfriend have been together for two and a half months, the sex has been great so far. She says it's the best sex she's ever had, and she often inititates the sex. In fact she initiates it more than me Which is great.

She has said once or twice that she is just worried all I want is sex.

Anyway, so last night we are on my bed, watching DVD's she starts to seduce me, teases me a little by starting to give me a bl0wjob, feeling herself up, etc. Then she gets off me and says "That's a taste of what you can enjoy later" (we were waiting for my parents to go to sleep so we could have sex). So clearly she was in the mood.

We carry on watching DVDs. She then asks me to make her something to eat, I was going to make myself something to eat anyway so I didn't mind. I wanted her to come with me to the kitchen but she was in her underwear and she said she'd rather wait in my room. This pi$$ed me off a bit because I it with her in the kitchen when she makes me something. I was only making something small though, and later realised I was just being a dumbass.

Anyway, she immediately notices that something is wrong when I came back with the food and asks me what's up. I decide to act like nothing is bugging me (since I realised I was being an idiot about the whole thing anyway).


Then she says:
"Baby, would you mind if we don't have sex tonight? I'm feeling realy tired."

I could see by the look on her face that she wanted some kind of reaction out of me. I tried my best to act like I was OK with it and it didn't bug me. Anyway, we stop watching after a few minutes and it is clear that she is pi$$ed off with me when we lie down to go to sleep. I ask her if she's pi$$ed off with me and she says "Yes I am, I don't want to talk to you now."

Anyway, I figure it's because she thinks I just wanted to have sex with her and getting bored with the movies was just an excuse, so I start asking her about her day, what she is up to the next day, etc. Talking to her about all kinds of things. Within in five minutes she is fine with me again: cuddling with me, kissing me and saying how much she loves me, etc. She even seemed to want to have sex again, but I told her I wanted to go to sleep.

Anyway, this morning she fvcked me three ways from Sunday and I gave her a few great orgasms , she even told me how wonderful it was, etc.

So she is in love with me, loves the sex (she is always telling me how great it is) so I know she isn't bored with it yet and wasn't actually tired (we spoke for like 30 minutes before going to sleep).

So what was up with her curve ball comment:

"Do you mind if we don't have sex tonight?" I mean I could clearly see she wanted a reaction out of me, she was clearly pi$$ed off about something after she made that statement. I am just curious if any of you know what she was trying to do with that comment?

I am slowly learning to understand her and how to react to her (I did prety well last night I would say, she was pi$$ed off with me but I got her back to her old self in no time at all).

 

[MacDiddy]

Don't make any judgement based on what she has told you about her love for you or your performance in bed.. Just discard it and carry on as usual..

If I was hit with a comment like that, I'd tell her "Baby, if we have sex... we have sex!!! thats it..."

 

[Black_Italian]

I would have told her straight out "I AM A NINJA dont try play mindgames with me".

 

[squirrels]

LOL what she MEANT to do by that comment is irrelevant. The point is that you handled it PERFECTLY.

By "not really caring", you showed that you're not desperate for her p*ssy.

She probably got mad because she's so used to having men bow down to her to get in her pants that she found it offensive...or better yet, she got scared that you were "just gonna go get it elsewhere."

So after she had some time to sulk, she figured she'd better get it in gear. And as you said, you saw the results.

Point is...it doesn't really matter. Just do what you want to do.

 

[Black_Italian]

Squirrels is right but let me clarify what he is trying to say. There is a Ninja within us all. Treat him wisely and he will treat you wisely.

 

[johnfjr]

um, who gives a ****? You're getting laid. women will throw curveball **** like that all the time. Just make sure you are a DJ at all times and pass these **** tests. They like to push buttons too.

 

[Hunchback]

"Baby, would you mind if we don't have sex tonight? I'm feeling realy tired."

"What makes you think you were getting any?"