"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Trying to stay out of it (need advice)

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This will probably be long, but it involves the gal that lead me here (I'll call her Girl A). I just finished my longest stretch to date of no contact, but after 4 months we met up again. We've been push/pulling for close to two years and I thought I was finally over it. It's the same thing every time. She comes on strong, tells me about who's trying to bang her, then bails. She's evil. I'm an idiot.

Right before I met Girl A there was this other gal that I had a crush on (Girl B) but she has a BF. I've been bumping into B at the grocery store and she also works in the same building. She always smiles and waves and seems like a genuine great catch.

So this last meet up with Girl A, she is telling me about this guy that's been trying to bang her. Turns out he is Girl B's man. Girl B works in my building but the dude is indirectly my superior. Not my boss but he is in Management. But this dude is getting what I want from both gals. Nudes from my old gal and dating the gorgeous girl B. I know he's just going for a pump and dump and she'd expect me to help pick up the pieces.

Any suggestions what I can do?

I should just stay out of it.

Do I talk to Girl B and find a way in?

Use the info for leverage?

Bottom line is, I know Girl A is trash, but I'm addicted to her. I pretty sure Girl B is out of my league, but is close to perfect.

Thanks in advance.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Infern0

Infern0

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Bro your mindset is ****ed up.

Girl A is poison to you and you know this

Girl B most likely isnt out of your league but with your messed up brain you will make her out of your league.

Take the focus off women for a month and work on your ****. You wont get any success with women if you are ****ed up.
 
Thorninmyside

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You've been here long enough that letting A back in is poison, and white knighting for B who you have on a pedestal gets you nowhere. B has already shown you what kind of guy she dates and you think being smiley nice guy snitch is the right play? Bro. C'mon.

Leave it all alone. The chips will fall where they may. The only duty you have is the go be the best version of yourself. And go block A from everything right now.
 
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