Trying To Spin Me Around

[Tagz]

This is perhaps a sequel to my Oneitis post. Found here:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=204224


Well, basically the following morning she randomly texted me that she knew I got home late in the evening and I replied very casually. Devoid of all emotion and joy.

I was lifting while she was texting me and it got annoying because she kept telling me i was still mad at her for turning me down. I told her off and made her realize I'm still going on with my life and that she was just some bad luggage I should've gotten rid off a long time ago.

Then I kept getting all this bullcrap like "Actually, I want to get to know the new you" and "Actually, I was gonna say 'yes' to you but I got scared"

I just said too bad we're just friends. We won't be anything more than that.

I say she's realized her loss. Trying to get me to come crawling back to her. :crackup:

No intention of ever going back. She's full of crap and I only proved it when I recalled every thing she said to me. I was too blinded by the value she projected that I didn't see what she really was.

Lesson learned: Don't fall for any girl just because of what good she is or what good she has done. Keep your head in the game and always check for the bad ones. Don't fall for the trap of 'I like this girl and I accept her and all the crap she throws at me' kind of thinking. If you want you can have your own **** tests and be the challenge yourself.

And ALWAYS have the balls to walk away.

 

[TheException]

Its true. Women dont like to get LJBF. So when it happens, they often seek attention from you even if theyre not interested.

I told her off and made her realize I'm still going on with my life and that she was just some bad luggage I should've gotten rid off a long time ago.

No need for this. Just be laconic to deal with her. No drama necessary.

Girl:Your still mad at me for turning you down. I can tell.
Beta: No im not. Would you stop texting me, im going on with my life. Im trying to lift right now blah blah blah.
Alpha: No.

 

[Tagz]

Its true. Women dont like to get LJBF. So when it happens, they often seek attention from you even if theyre not interested.

I told her off and made her realize I'm still going on with my life and that she was just some bad luggage I should've gotten rid off a long time ago.

No need for this. Just be laconic to deal with her. No drama necessary.

Girl:Your still mad at me for turning you down. I can tell.
Beta: No im not. Would you stop texting me, im going on with my life. Im trying to lift right now blah blah blah.
Alpha: No.

Thanks for that! I'll keep it in mind but I didn't tell her that at all. I just made her feel that through the, as you say, laconic texts I sent her.

Though I did fail at that at some point of our conversation.

The problem is with her is that the colder and shorter texts I send her, she interprets them as me being angry. Is there a way to getting around that?

 

[TheException]

The problem is with her is that the colder and shorter texts I send her, she interprets them as me being angry.

Well if you are angry then thats why and by you saying "colder and shorter" you sort of are implying to me that you are angry...atleast a bit. If thats not the case then who cares what she thinks. You truly have to not give a **** about her. True indifference.

 

[LongLostFriend]

Her reaction is irrelevant.

 

[Tagz]

True indifference.

I'll push on this one further. It seems I lack a lot of it. Thanks!