"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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trying to score lol

BrAzILiaNpLaYaE

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So I'm 19 just got out of a 4 yr relationship. Last weekend i went to some partyy hooked up with this girl. Shes a senior in HS nd gorgeous. After that i contacted her on facebook and started getting to know her a little better. She's given me her number, old me to call her so we could hang out. I lost it and told her if she wanted it bad she'd give it to me again so she did. Should I ignore her and call her on fridayyy or what not ? also should I take her and her friends to a partyy or just go out me and her ? Recently I was supposed to hang out with some other girl and all the sudden she lost interest. The day i was supposed to hang out with her i callled her and asked if we were still on, and she said she didnt know. I didn't beg just said ok i'll find something else to do. After that i havent talked to that girll.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Five To One

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First, congrats on getting out of the relationship.
Second, good job on getting a quick hookup after getting out of such a long relationship. Some guys get hung up on getting that first score for a long time.

Now with the girl you met at the party, it depends on what she is to you. If your trying to make her a f-buddy (probably best option) then take her to a party. Having her friends tag along wont be a big deal. That way you can leave her with her friends if you feel like it. Drunken sex toward the end of the night will be a given so you wont need to do much game on her, just get her at the party. After she gets drunk and horny she will go to you before any other guy. Just keep your eye on her during the night and turn on the charm if some guy is gaming hard on her. But that probably wont be a problem, sounds like she has solid interest for you.

If shes a decent girl and you want to date her then taking her to a party wouldnt be the best choice. I would call her thursday night and set up a date(movie at your house).

You handled the girl who lost interest well. No reason for you to talk to her ever again unless she initiates it and shows interest.
 

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hmmm.... yeah im glad to be single again after a long time. I'm ready to have the best time of my life regardless of who the girls are that get to be part of it. I just found out i work both nights this weekend, but i dont work next weekend. Is that a long time to wait to hang out with her? Because i'm having a partyy on that sat the 16th. I invited plenty of girls soo im pretty sure i wont end that night alone. But for this weekend it'd be nice to get laid too haha.
 
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