"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trying to Next a Girl..this ne good?

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I like this girl but i've had enough of her ****....i havent talked to her in like a week cause well you know im trying to "Next" her...well she IMs me and says "hey...I havent talked to you in a LOOONG!!! time! whats up?"...thats when I said i've been real busy and just end the convo by signing off IM...ne good? need comments...









"Dont hate the player.hate the game."
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why are you nexting her? what kinda **** has she given you?

but yeah that's a pretty good way to next a girl
 
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Well you like her, she messages you, and your trying to next her?


How about this buddy boy, You stop it with this texting rubbish and talk to her FACE TO FACE... i mean sh1t... she lives next door right?


Dont let a good thing pass by.
 
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well yeah i like her but she has been getting the impression of us being just friends plus she always tries to gain the upperhand like trying to make me buy **** for her....it was time to next her....thanks for the replys
 
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Originally posted by LiveStrong
well yeah i like her but she has been getting the impression of us being just friends plus she always tries to gain the upperhand like trying to make me buy **** for her....it was time to next her....thanks for the replys
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you mean "replies".
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh yes! terribly sorry.....I mean replies
 
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Quit being a little b*tch.

If you're gonna next this girl, f*cking do it. Quit with the pansy-ass, passive-aggressive, weak cowardly BULLSH*T... "just not talking to her and hoping she gets the idea".

Mother f*cking TELL her if you don't want her anymore. Stop being a dumbass.
 
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