trying to make me jealous?

[Backwardsman]

Hi all, first post here so be gentle

a question,

i have been seeing this girl for nearly 3 months, she texts me all the time, calls me, wants to meet me for breaks at work etc, basically she initiates everything...

anyway, i am going on holiday tomorrow with my mates, she has just called me and said that this guy she kinda knows just turned up at her 2nd job and asked to give her a lift home, she said that she no at first but he kept pushing so she said yes and asked him to drop her off half way.... She called him a stalker etc and that he keeps messaging her on facebook...

is this her trying to make me jealous? i just laughed it off on the phone, no reaction at all, the more i did this the more she mentioned stuff...

just was wondering

cheers

 

[Backwardsman]

More than just jealousy. Too much actual contact and denial.

Hi PPRF, what do you mean by this, can you explain further

Thanks

 

[Sandow]

Don't worry about it, you shouldn't have any reaction to it all. Like you already did, keep laughing it off. Girls hate the fact you have no reaction at all, but secretly deep inside they love it. Once you cave in and get emotional, she wins and knows you're not a true man, and will soon lose feelings and seek someone else out. To answer your question, yes she's trying to make you jealous. It's what they do, they start **** and test your reaction.

 

[Tiguere]

she wants you to make a move and bring on exclusivity

 

[Backwardsman]

Don't worry about it, you shouldn't have any reaction to it all. Like you already did, keep laughing it off. Girls hate the fact you have no reaction at all, but secretly deep inside they love it. Once you cave in and get emotional, she wins and knows you're not a true man, and will soon lose feelings and seek someone else out. To answer your question, yes she's trying to make you jealous. It's what they do, they start **** and test your reaction.

Cheers mate, i kinda knew this, but its good to hear confirmation....

yeah i just started laughing everytime she mentioned something and she kept saying glad you find it funny etc...

thought it would be a test, to be honest, not really a jealous person and i kinda know this other guy to be creepy and a bit of a AFC....

Thanks

 

[Backwardsman]

she wants you to make a move and bring on exclusivity

Thats what someone else has said to me too... i think it might be the fact i am going to portugal with my mates tomorrow aswell.

I am seeing her tomorrow before i go so i will see what is said etc...

keep you posted...