"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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trying to make me jealous?

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Me and this HB 8 have known each other for about 4 years now and she started to show interest in me lately. Im pretty sure she likes me because of IOI and shes always staring at me in one of my classes. She also says hi to me whenever we pass in the hallways, somethign she used to not do. Im pretty sure she knows I like her too. So yesterday, I got her number and decided to call her on saturday and maybe ask her out. But today, she acted really different. She was talking loudly to her friends about other guys and her ex. and calling them hot. She knew i could hear her perfectly because i sat in front of her in that class. Is she trying to make me jealous? Is it because shes hoping i will call her? If so, how should i respond?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Wow. Shes a loser, wait until sunday.
haha.

Respond by not caring, cause you don't wanna let her effect you like that.
thats just b!tchy on her part.
 

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So I should call her Sunday? Should i still ask her out or no?
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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if you wanna go out with her, you find a way. if not, don't.
 

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Would you want a girl who will try to make you jealous and then boom! Switch to being nice against to you and IoI you ?

If Yes .. Then Call her to hang out with her , dont make it something big out of it .. For you and for her ..

For you so when she is not interested you'll won't feel **** ( some person will feel this way) And for her .. So its no biggie to her to .. She wont feel unnacessary pressure and won't freak out and find you a weirdo
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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HolyG

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adeft said:
She was talking loudly to her friends about other guys and her ex. and calling them hot. She knew i could hear her perfectly because i sat in front of her in that class. Is she trying to make me jealous? Is it because shes hoping i will call her? If so, how should i respond?

She's trying to make you jealous. I don't know how much more obvious it can get.
 
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