"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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trying to make me jealous

mysterymanelp

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I have this coworker named Valerie that caressed my hand one time when I was talking to a lady on the phone. I took it as nothing and blew it off. She would always blink at me and touch me, but I took it as nothing that its just her personality. I asked her out to lunch one day and she said sure lets go. She would always call me when I would get in to fix her computer or phone. We would get really really close face to face, but never kiss or move back. She would see me walking towards her direction bend over and show me her butt. I even tell her that she looks very nice in BLUE.

A couple of weeks later I bring it to her attention how she is and she completely says that its just her and she is that way with everybody. So I’m like ok whatever. So I stop talking to her.

A male coworker is talking to me one day when he says why is it that when you are around Valarie she throws out her chest and her nipples are sticking out. I tell him I never noticed and just blow the conversation off.

Fast forward three months and everyday I see Valarie in the halls she stares at me, but I wont look at her or say anything. I’m downstairs helping a coworker with her computer and she says oh do I have to fill out the ups form EVERYBODY know you have to fill out the form. So she sits in back of me filling out the form. I move to the next computer which is about 15 feet away and she go right over there to talk to the lady that I am helping and I can see in the corner of my eye her staring at me wearing a BLUE shirt. I completely ignore her and she walks 5 feet turns around and tells the lady she forgot she needs some ups forms gets them and leave. 15 minutes later she comes back and says she don’t need that many U.P.S forms.

Now it seems she is trying to get me jealous and find out information about me. I had to fix her computer and she starts talking to this female coworker how she is going to go to lunch with some guy. My boss and her are going to the Marriott for a business conference and he tells me like 4 times and he never tells me things more than once.

So I email her and tell her to give me a call when she gets a chance. She calls me leaves a voice mail message, and tells me that I can call her on her cell phone, then she calls my boss asking him why I called he tells her probably about the excel spreadsheet. So when I get in he ask me you called valarie for the excel spreadsheet right and I was like yeah. He goes I told her that was why you called and left fustrated.

Am I reading this wrong is she trying to get me jealous.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've had girls say that it's just the way they are. Don't believe it - she's doing it for a reason. Do you seriously think she would be doing the same thing for a 60 year old co-worker? Nah!

Why is she doing it? Two possibilities:

1. She likes the attention and power, it gives her an ego boost.
2. She's trying to attract you.

Given that you asked her out and she said no I would guess it's probably the latter. I guess she might just be ****ing with you.

If she's flirting with you as you think and you like her. Take control and start flirting back, read her signals and go from there. If you don't like her just say that it makes you uncomfortable and at the workplace it could be considered sexual harrassment. ****-her, you don't need that kind of crap when you are working.

Be warned - she might just be setting you up to reject you though.
 

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You have her cell phone number. Call her when you're off the clock and set it up to meet her somewhere.

Like call her up and say

You: "Hey, what's up with you? You want something from me"
Her: "What do you mean"
You: "You know what I mean. Don't play that" (women love this kind of banter)
Her: (most likely) "Let's go out sometime"
You: "That's what I thought. When are you free?"

There is a chance she plays totally dumb and doesn't buy into it. At this point tell her a few things she does that you notice. Then say "So tell me now, do you like the attention or do you wanna make something of it? I don't play games."

If she still acts like she has no idea what you're talking about, say "Fine. Sorry to bother you", and completely ignore her further advances until the end of time. If it really bothers you then file a complaint.

Attention *****s can kiss my azz
 

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I've had girls say that it's just the way they are. Don't believe it - she's doing it for a reason.
Seriously, in that situation it would be a miracle if the girl had told you anything different than that it's just they way she is. Us guys might say something funny about her butt in that situation, while kidding around or might even be like wtf yeah im attracted to you. But a girl would NEEEEEEEEEEEEVER do that lol mark my words
 

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Well stated madgame. Basically, she wants you to step up, be a man, and show her where the buck stops. She wants you to have game, so she can get turned on. Stop being a wuss and throw legitimate DJ moves at her (again, not at work).
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I cant believe you don't see this...
ARE YOU JUST TRYING TO SHOW OFF?
this ***** wants you like no other... she wants you to bone her hard, she's in love with you.

you have to make the moves however. stop being a scared ***** and start speaking passionatley to this hoe, you're in control and you know it, I cant beleiev you,:nono: have you never gotten ***** lol? :moon:

from there you have two options...

1. form a real loving relationship:rolleyes:
2. lie your ass off and play with her mind lol (my personal favorite lol) :up:

okay now go, any other doubts are just you being insecure, and trust me I know whats happ-nin :crazy:
 

mysterymanelp

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make the move

I'm just gonna have to make the move again. Last week I was at the door talking to her when she looks at me and then looks down to my crotch. I'm going to have to hit it when she gets back in town.
 
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