"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Trying to impress women by displaying an ability to speak in tongues.

Poonani Maker

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Is this a good idea? I'm hardcore learning 19 languages, for myself, And for the girls. It's a very difficult undertaking. Fruitless? Pointless? I do it as a mind exercise too. My job brings in the big money, but as far as an "educated" "white " "collar" job, well, let's just say that I'm not admired for my higher learning, but only for the courage and active role I play, everyday.

I suppose that I could use a number of the languages that I am learning in my everyday job, but mostly, it's to exercise the mind, IMPRESS people/girls, and to gain a better understanding of things I encounter out there.

I've noticed that some languages are "lazy" (Arabic) whereas others are "hyper" or "jumpy" i.e. Korean. I have to WORK, nonetheless, to pronounce it correctly. I feel like the whipping boy sometimes while learning it.

Am I just chasing the unattainable...trying to gain a grip on 19 different, but sometimes, overlapping, languages?

I've learns through this process, that After practicing a difficult or pronounce/understand language, that, the easier ones just flow and roll real easy. It's like a roller coaster, you climb uphill, then you wee downhill, then you climb uphill again with the more difficult language like Arabic, Russian, or Korean, then you coast with Dutch, Italian, or Portuguese.

Too many, in this country called America, could really care less what languages I know. They just want to get paid, fvck, dance, and drive BMWs, drink wine, fvck some more, usually only learning if it leads to money or a similar carrot.

Will women think that I can suck their puss real fine if I can half-way demonstrate, articulately speaking, all these different languages?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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When I read the thread title I thought you were talking about gaming church girls and were going to speak in "tongues" as they do in some dnominations to try to impress them lol. That would not look cool.
 

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Are you drunk?

Drop the 18 of those languages and cultivate some status.
 

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You only need to know the major ones. English, French & Spanish (pretty similar), Mandarin and you've got the whole world covered.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Is this a good idea? I'm hardcore learning 19 languages, for myself, And for the girls. It's a very difficult undertaking. Fruitless? Pointless? I do it as a mind exercise too. My job brings in the big money, but as far as an "educated" "white " "collar" job, well, let's just say that I'm not admired for my higher learning, but only for the courage and active role I play, everyday.

I suppose that I could use a number of the languages that I am learning in my everyday job, but mostly, it's to exercise the mind, IMPRESS people/girls, and to gain a better understanding of things I encounter out there.

I've noticed that some languages are "lazy" (Arabic) whereas others are "hyper" or "jumpy" i.e. Korean. I have to WORK, nonetheless, to pronounce it correctly. I feel like the whipping boy sometimes while learning it.

Am I just chasing the unattainable...trying to gain a grip on 19 different, but sometimes, overlapping, languages?

I've learns through this process, that After practicing a difficult or pronounce/understand language, that, the easier ones just flow and roll real easy. It's like a roller coaster, you climb uphill, then you wee downhill, then you climb uphill again with the more difficult language like Arabic, Russian, or Korean, then you coast with Dutch, Italian, or Portuguese.

Too many, in this country called America, could really care less what languages I know. They just want to get paid, fvck, dance, and drive BMWs, drink wine, fvck some more, usually only learning if it leads to money or a similar carrot.

Will women think that I can suck their puss real fine if I can half-way demonstrate, articulately speaking, all these different languages?
I know you are better than this. You must be high or drunk when you posted that.

There is no difference between you saying: 'If I learn 19 different languages, will that get the girls?' VS the AFC saying: 'If I give her flowers and write stupid poetry, will I get the girl?'

Wake up - learn a new language only if YOU want to
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Poonani Maker said:
Is this a good idea?
Will women think that I can suck their puss real fine if I can half-way demonstrate, articulately speaking, all these different languages?
no and no.
 

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Why do you need to know 19 languages? Youll only know them on a superficial level. Why not learn 1 or 2 and speak them fluently?
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
Why do you need to know 19 languages? Youll only know them on a superficial level. Why not learn 1 or 2 and speak them fluently?
Because that doesn't impress the girls.

I think we all agree that Poonani should spend the next 40 years learning 19 languages fluently so he can impress a couple of girls with it. Get to it man. Those languages won't learn themselves.
 

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Trying to impress women already is a bad idea.
 

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Yeah right - knowing 18 languages isn't good enough - but if you know 19 languages, then the *****es are going to come - no pun intended!!

Are you going to speak 19 languages to a person who only understands 1? What is the purpose? Hell, half of the adults born in America can't even speak english.

What are you going to tell a girl - "I know 19 languages", then you expect her to respond, "Oh yeah baby, I want you lick me all over my body, including my eyeballs!". I don't get the connection.

Why do you want to impress hors anyway? Don't you have something better to do than impress hors? Like learning a new language! :rolleyes:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PSYCHO said:
Yeah right - knowing 18 languages isn't good enough - but if you know 19 languages, then the *****es are going to come - no pun intended!!

Are you going to speak 19 languages to a person who only understands 1? What is the purpose? Hell, half of the adults born in America can't even speak english.

What are you going to tell a girl - "I know 19 languages", then you expect her to respond, "Oh yeah baby, I want you lick me all over my body, including my eyeballs!". I don't get the connection.

Why do you want to impress hors anyway? Don't you have something better to do than impress hors? Like learning a new language! :rolleyes:
WTF? Who speaks 18 languages just to impress someone? :rolleyes: Knowing 1 would probably be enough to impress some. :cool:
 

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I took a seminar once, there was a guy there that was fluent in at least six languages, and had written books in at least two. Everybody ooh'd and ahhh'd cause the mother****er was obviously very smart.

But his wife was about a 5, to be generous. The dude could also sing beautifully too, as he belted out some nice ones around the bar at night.

But even then his wife was still a 5, to be generous.
 
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