trying to hard

[GQzSwagStarFamous]

recently i just been on it. I keep telling myself i have to get a number everyday and i am doin my best to not have all my eggs in one basket. Its been working i am seeing very positive results i don't really care about certain people seeing me as somewhat of a player because most people dont think i can get a woman so by them seeing me interacting with them it raises my value. The problem is that people are starting to say i try to hard and this is bringing negative attention to myself which i was afraid would happen if i just got out there.

i just want to know how can i prevent this view of myself from happening or is it something that people will just do?

does anyone have any tips on making interactions look effortless?

also how should i react to someone confronting me and telling me to my face i am trying to hard disrespecting me and also when you here that someone is going around saying i am trying to hard

 

[DondottaJuanpappa]

Tell them to not get hater-aid intoxication.

 

[thecurtainfalls]

Was it a guy or a girl that said it?

 

[Young Juan]

I'll be okay. You just do you and I'll do me.

Lets leave being me up to me.

 

[LinkinParkROX]

also how should i react to someone confronting me and telling me to my face i am trying to hard disrespecting me and also when you here that someone is going around saying i am trying to hard

Like this.

Make sure you have a girl who you just chatted up somewhere around, or just a hottie you're yet to approach, and tell the guy dissing you this: "Maybe I try too hard - but at the end of the day, I end up getting *tilt head to direction of HB* while you probably end up with *tilt head down to own pelvic region* " And walk off.

 

[GetOveIT]

Just do what you want to do, better to try hard and fail than to do nothing and get nothing...

 

[GQzSwagStarFamous]

thanks guys i really appreciate the advice and it was a girl that said ...she was mad because i told her she didnt need to put weave in her hair ...i guess she took the compliment the wrong way

 

[kingsam]

thanks guys i really appreciate the advice and it was a girl that said ...she was mad because i told her she didnt need to put weave in her hair ...i guess she took the compliment the wrong way

is this girl ugly? shes probably just a jelous hater that she didnt get approached... its often the average girls (or ugly) who "love to hate the players"

 

[GQzSwagStarFamous]

now that you mention it and looking back. she has always been some where around me when ever i was talking to a girl and i honestly pay her no attention because she had a crush on my bestfriend and i don't really find her attractive. plus she did some weak mess ...sending her bestfriend to get me to talk my bestfriend into taking her out. Like come on we are all grown adults here leave that in elementary know what i'm saying