Trying to get this Japanese girl, 20 yrs old

[Okimar]

I live in Okinawa and am trying to get this little 20 yr old Japanese girl. She works at a purse stand in the mall. I walked up to her, fluff talk for a couple minutes then got the number. Set up a date for coffee a few days later. Met up with her, BS'd a little, had fun. Walked her to her car, got a peck on the lips, whatever. I told her that next time we met I would take her on base (I'm in the military). I tried to set up another date a few days after that but she said she was busy all week and that she wouldn't be free until the following week.

Sounded like she was getting cold on me so I didn't try and paw at her, actually I told her something someone said here on another post, I said "No prob, maybe we can meet again when you know your schedule better. later" She texted me a couple days later asking if she could bring her friend with her next time if we met on base. If you know anything about Japan and military is that Japanese girls LOVE to go on base because of the shopping, its cheaper and cooler.

I can't figure out if this girl is trying to use me to go on base or if she's bringing her friend because she doesn't want to be alone with me on base (most likely because she knows we would eventually go to my room). Or maybe she just wants her friend to have fun too because a lot of girls haven't been on base but they always want to. I still haven't replied, she sent me the message last night.

Any advice?

 

[Effington]

Threesome!

All joking aside, I have no advice for ya, other than just see what happens. Just do your thing and don't let the friend hinder your kino escalation and all that snazz.

 

[Sexual]

Me either. But how is it living there? I've been looking into some cities in Asia to maybe live in a for a period after college.

 

[Okimar]

So are you saying to go through with it? Let her and her friend come on base and go into the stores and stuff? My boss said to let em on base but to just go to the room and watch a movie, don't take them to the stores and what not. I don't know.. It'll come to me soon, I still got some time before I'm gonna contact her. She usually takes at least a day before she responds to me, that biatch!

As far as your question Sexual, I LOVE Okinawa! I have gotten more ass out here in 2 years than I have my whole life in America! I've prob been with at least 15 girls in 2 years. Half of em were one night stands too! For me thats outstanding! All this and I'm a complete noob at this SS stuff! Not to mention I'm skinny and have a big nose..

Anyway, Okinawa is great. If you can't pull a girl out here you can always go to the red light district and get whatever you want for like, $50. They have happy ending massages for $50 also, I prefer those over the red light district because you get 40 min massage out of the deal too.

I've heard great things about Tokyo too, never been there so I can't say but the word is that the girls are hotter over there and more outgoing. Oki is definatly nice though. Thanks for the reply dudes!

 

[Okimar]

We'll see whats up, I'll think of something to write this girl. The beauty of Japanese girls is you can mess up on the communication part and the consequences are not as severe.

Sexual, you should DEFINATLY live in Tokyo or Okinawa. There are hotter girls per capita in Tokyo and they are more outgoing but Okinawa is no bore either. Either way Japanese girls are ripe for the plucking and almost all of them like Americans.

Thanks for the reply dudes.

 

[shinko]

What's the dynamic like chatting up japanese girls compared to western ones? Im going over there soonish for a holiday.

 

[Okimar]

Well, the dynamics depend on how well they speak english. If they are hot and know english, you better be good looking or black (I'm not racist). I say this because most hot japanese girls who know english usually are into the hip hop scene, which means that they are looking for a stereotypical hip hop dude. White guys can pull it off but you better be hip hop! If they are hot but DONT know englsih then they are at a disadvantage, and they will have to settle for lower standards whether it be a less good looking hip hop dude or a better looking non hip hop dude.

If the girl doesn't know much english then all they can understand is key words like, "cute, sexy, fun, hungry" etc. As long as you are confident in what you say you can get a number. The biggest thing about Okinawans and Japanese is persistence. They will almost always say they have a boyfriend or even ignore you but the more you persist and make them luagh, the more chance you have of taking them home. One night stands are outrageously common here, maybe because they have "love hotels", hotels you can pay by 3 hour increments. Perversion is accepted over here, its just not spoken about so much, more of a "We know its gonna happen" thing.

Damn, I'm still typing... Uhh, I could go on for days about my experience with the chicks out here but the main point is that anyone has a chance to get laid out here but you are at more of an advantage if you are black or good looking so you can imagine how much ass the brothas get..

Ok im done, for tonight.. As far as an update with this chick, well, I wrote her back and said "maybe next time, I want to get to know you better first". She wrote back (2 hours later) "You mean... next time we hang out, only you and me?" I wrote back (in hiragana) "hai". I'm still waiting on a response (4 hours later). I don't know why this chick insists on waiting hours upon hours to reply, maybe she's playing some kind of "20yr old games" but whatever. Its not gonna take me long to find out what shes about.

The thing that sucks about being in the military right now is that we are on restriction... we have a 10pm curfew and we cannot drink alcohol off base which means that we cant go to the night clubs and pick up chicks (which are the easiest one-night-stands). I have to do all my work at coffee houses and "sober" things of the sort. I've been taking some time off of my pimping schedule though, I make music on my computer a lot so thats been keeping me busy. Day time sarges are completely possible though and I'm gonna put it on strong soon.

If any of you are in the area or are going to be in the area soon, I hope that anything I said in this post helps. I'm gonna drink another beer, sarge on fellas!

 

[SharinganUser]

Hmm, about the schedule thing, it is very expensive to live in japan so it is very common for young couples to go weeks without seeing one another, so if she said she is busy, she pprobably means it.

That being said I wouldn't waste time waiting for a response.

As for the hip hop thing, I am definitely not hip hop and certainly not black and I had no problem meeting Japanese women. But, I am blessed with height and blue eyes, among other things.

It sounds like you are getting one-itis for this chick. Just have fun with her and take the lead. You yourself said to be persistent, my friend who lives in Japan said you can ask Japanese women anything three times.

Turn your message thing off for a long while and have another beer.