"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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trying to get that head back

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When i first started going out with my g/f she would give me head, she actually gave me head before we were going out. Then as the relationship progressed she stopped giving it to me. I know now that i should have never asked her to gie me head because that was stupid, and I asked her a few times i which she would say "i just dont like to do it". Also, I should have done it while she was really turned on so she would relate it to a good experience and rewarded her alot more afterwards. I even tried to do her first and then I said thats not fair because I did her, this almost worked but she the next week she still wouldnt go for it. Maybe If I tried again this technique would work. I know alot about manscaping so its not like I have a forest down there. She will give me a hand job whenever but its not the same. Anyway, she deffinately has a high interest level for me, and doesnt want to loose me, now I know she wants to have sex with me too but if you read my other post theres a problem with that...

I want to try to get her to enjoy giving me head but I afraid that its too late because I asked her so many times and I made it out to be a chore instead of me being the prize and giving her the valuable oppritunity of giving me head. I already started to try to change her mind set by getting her real use to my dong being out haha and she likes it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ASking a girl for head, Thats not good. YOu should be a man!!! COMEN!! YOU think 007 says give me a head?? NO they act like real men, what you should do, is stop. JUST Stop, stop, stop, stop, stop having sex with her unless she takes you down. Try ignoring her, not in the way you think, like ignore her in a sex way, dont kiss her a lot, dont fukk her a lot, and stop asking her to give ahead. Trust me she will be pissed and will be giving you head every week
 
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i havent had sex with her yet and i know to never ask like i did before but what else can i do
 
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noone has anything for me.... ?
 
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come, no one can help me... tonight i went over her house and gave her oral for a while and i was like so are u gonna return the favor and she was like i dunno maybe later. well f*ck that, I was like thats not fair because i knew she wouldnt do it later, and she was like why dou want me to do it so bad? i said because it feels freaking great... then she says well not for me.

After this i decided to imply the whole punishment/reward thing, I just layed down, I didnt no what to say, but i couldnt just let her off then she would have won. So I layed there are ignored her while she tried to get my attention haha then I pretty much got my clothes on and walked out no goodbyes or anything and walked away from her when she asked me to come back... still thinking WTF. So I was outside her door for a little and I was considering coming back in but I just didnt want to let her win I didnt want to reward her. So i gotin my car and left and she started calling me crying, asking me to come back and not be mad at her. I told her I wasnt mad and that id talk to her later. I would break up with her but I really like her, but if shes not going to be fair then I cant reward her for that.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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naw i never give a girl oral... But you carry on B, you proving that you are what you eat

Get a fuucking back bone and lay the law B
 
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