Trying to freeze out this girl for a bit...asking for advice

[ecilop]

Hey guys,
here's a quick summary of the situation I'm in:

So after going on 7-8 dates with this girl (she's 18, so am I), I have a LOT of rapport with this girl. We talk on IM 4-5 times a week, txting a bunch, we have a really strong connection.
On our last date, after being at the mall for 4-5 hours, we went to my house and cuddled a lot while watching a movie.
After the movie she got on top of me and we made out for a minute, then I suggested we go up to my room (first time she was in my house)
After getting up to my room I put on some music, then we started making out a bit on my bed then she was like "I really gotta get home, it's late" and basically just bailed...even though i know for a FACT she had nothing to do the next day and she just went home and watched TV shows on her computer...she just doesn't want to escalate farther than making out with me right now.
An hour after she left that night (2am) I got this txt as I was trying to fall asleep: "just so u kno...it sux that it got so late and i had to leave "
Anyway, after trying to figure out why i can't lay this girl, a few masterminds have told me to just NEXT her and move on cuz she isn't worth my time..she obviously is not looking for sex anytime soon, or strictly on her timeline. I'm a virgin and I would love to do it with this girl but not if it's going to take so much effort and time from me.

Onto the point regarding the subject of this thread...
I want to freeze her out for a week to make her understand I'm not really happy with her. I already haven't talked to her for 3 days (we usually talk every other day or so extensively on IM), and she sent me a text today. I just made it plain and boring even though it pained me to haha:

her: "hey wat's up"
me: "not much just got outta a study session"
her: "ooh how fun"

How do I keep ignoring her/freezing her out/showing less interest in order to make it OBVIOUS to her that it's because she's not satisfying me enough (sexually)? I feel that because of the last situation we were in she might understand but I want her to understand it blatantly.

I was thinking of actually talking to her about it if she asks whats up with me cuz I'm ignoring her and just tell her about it straight up over the phone but that seems like a very AFC thing to do.

ANY help would be awesome, you guys have helped me a lot so far w/ my quest with this girl and I wish to finally close it while hopefully keeping an amazing ****buddy

-ecilop

 

[constantlygettingup]

7-8 dates wow thats a long time even at your age. Its clear that both of you are inexperienced. As for nexting her that is BS she is just a little scared and shy. I would suggest setting something up with her and showing maybe a mild insecurity of your own something to make her feel that she can really trust you and BE with you.

 

[toddlips]

Just offer to go down on her and she'll flip out with excitement. Promise.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

This is a common problem with inexperienced guys and 90% of the time it doesn't really have to do with the girl not being willing and able, it has to do with the guy not knowing how to escalate the sexual tension and get the girl so horny that she can't help it. There's a certain point where the biology of her body will take over even if her mind is trying to convince herself that she shouldn't fuvk you.

Learn how to make her horny and I promise you she will be down to fuvk you.



PIMP

 

[Aragon034]

Here are your orders Soldier.

You are to read, read again, and keep reading this following dossier
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16888
until you can recite it from memory. Even more so, these principles will be ingrained in your very soul.

Once this task is complete, you will use diversionary tactics (beach date/walk in park) in order to relax your target.

Once target is relaxed you will escalate to your furthest scouted territory (Making out) you will begin subterfuge and infiltration tactics in interrogating her (getting her extremely horny). The procedures and relevant information is included in the dossier linked above. Rules of engagement are also touched upon and further information can be checked at your leisure. (I.E. Other sex related advice)

ETA on target relenting and submitting to interrogation tactics is unknown, there are too many variables for accurate assumption. Our only orders to you on this note are as follows; 'Once you think you've done enough foreplay, do another 10 minutes'

At this point, interrogation should be finished and the desired information should be clear (She wants you to **** her goddamn brains out.) You will at this point, unholster your primary tool and begin drilling operations.

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**** WARNING ****
**** RED ALERT ****
**** PRIORITY 1 ****
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PRIOR TO ANY DRILLING CONTACT, YOU ARE ORDERED TO REPORT TO YOUR LOCAL CLINIC/PHARMACY/GAS STATION AND ACQUIRE PROTECTING DRILL BIT SHEATHING (Condoms) AS THERE ARE REPORTS OF DRILL EATING BIOLOGICAL WMD'S IN CERTAIN DRILLING SITES. THESE ARE ONE TIME USE PROTECTIVE GEAR AND SHOULD BE DISPOSED OF IN THE PROPER MANNER (Usually i'll fling em over my shoulder) UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES ARE YOU TO ENGAGE IN ANY DRILLING ACTIVITY WITHOUT SAID PROTECTIVE GEAR. THIS IS PUNISHABLE UNDER THE ARTICLES LISTED BELOW

http://www.listofstds.com/
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pregnancy
http://www.IT/****ING/BURNS/WHEN/I/PEE!!!!


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**** END ****
*TRANSMISSION*
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Drilling operations should be kept under control, erratic or overly excited drilling may result in catastrophic drill warhead detonation prior to mission completion. (Deep breathes, maybe a thicker condom, whatever you feel you need to last long enough)

Once target drilling site is sufficiently explored and excavated (she's screaming your name and digging her nails into your back as she orgasms... again.) your mission is complete.

Discretionary objectives are as follows, commence rebuilding process (Cuddle), Specialist Exploration of Target (Eat her out), Clean Drill using Target resources (*******), , continued drilling of original target (another 1, 2, or 10 orgasms).

We're counting on you soldier. The free world and many Don Juan Commandos are behind you fully and are at your disposal for strategic assistance.
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