"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Trying to bulk up...

Caldus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2005
Messages
348
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Location
Charlotte, North Carolina
(This was already in the bulking up topic but I wasn't sure if people are still looking at it so I posted here.)

OK I need some input...

I weigh between 125 and 130.

This is my routine (been doing it for 6 months):

Work out 3 times a week max in this order (increasing the weight every two weeks or so):

- Stretches for 5-10 minutes.
- Rest for a minute.
- Military Press - 3 sets, 8 reps, 80 pounds.
- Same thing with 1 set, 5 reps, 90 pounds.
- Inclined Benchpress - 3 sets, 8 reps, 110 pounds.
- Same thing with 1 set, 5 reps, 120 pounds.
- Biceps (pull downs) - 3 sets, 10 reps, 70 pounds.
- Back (pulling down on same machine) - 3 sets, 10 reps, 90 pounds.
- Cable Row - 3 sets, 20 reps, 70 pounds.
- Machine for chest - 3 sets, 10 reps, 60 pounds.
- Free weights for biceps - 3 sets, 8 reps, 30 pounds on each hand.

And that's about it. I'm probably going to start doing abs too at some point.

I'm guessing I don't eat enough by looking at what D posted. So I'll work on that. I've been a little under but not too far under. I've noticed some great results so far after 6 months of doing this in the gym.

I'll post a pic at some point.

But is there anything wrong with my routine here? What do I need to work on, drop, or add?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Lifeforce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2003
Messages
2,091
Reaction score
18
Location
SWEDEN
You need to get more big exercises in there, squats, SLDL, deadlifts, rows, cleans, etc... those are very good mass builders. Apart from that, eat like a dinosaur. Just read diesels guide and follow his guidelines on the exercises for each body part.
 

FatsTheScrapper

Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2005
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Location
Columbus, OH
Yep, more compound movements will get you where you want to be.

Those isolation exercises are inefficient in helping you gain mass. You want to use as many muscles at once. Try to increase the weight each week instead of every two. Even if it's only by 2.5lbs, multiply that by 52wks is 130lbs gained on a movement versus only 65 if you increase every other week. You're going to get to a point where its going to fvcking hurt and you want to quit, but it's you against the weights, and you gotta win dude. You gotta.

Eat clean and eat big. 1.5-2.0g of protein per lb of bodyweight. Lots of chicken, fish, greens, and water.

Good luck.
 

Caldus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2005
Messages
348
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Location
Charlotte, North Carolina
Originally posted by Lifeforce
You need to get more big exercises in there, squats, SLDL, deadlifts, rows, cleans, etc... those are very good mass builders. Apart from that, eat like a dinosaur. Just read diesels guide and follow his guidelines on the exercises for each body part.
What are SLDL, deadlifts, rows, and cleans?
 

Caldus

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 13, 2005
Messages
348
Reaction score
1
Age
41
Location
Charlotte, North Carolina
Originally posted by FatsTheScrapper
Yep, more compound movements will get you where you want to be.

Those isolation exercises are inefficient in helping you gain mass. You want to use as many muscles at once. Try to increase the weight each week instead of every two. Even if it's only by 2.5lbs, multiply that by 52wks is 130lbs gained on a movement versus only 65 if you increase every other week. You're going to get to a point where its going to fvcking hurt and you want to quit, but it's you against the weights, and you gotta win dude. You gotta.

Eat clean and eat big. 1.5-2.0g of protein per lb of bodyweight. Lots of chicken, fish, greens, and water.

Good luck.
But I still do get muscles with these isolation exercises correct?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

FatsTheScrapper

Don Juan
Joined
May 24, 2005
Messages
16
Reaction score
0
Location
Columbus, OH
SLDL = straight legged dead lift

Go to bodybuilding.com and look up the exercises. It'd be alot easier to understand what they are by looking at the pics than people trying to explain them.
 

Lifeforce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2003
Messages
2,091
Reaction score
18
Location
SWEDEN

Lifeforce

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 8, 2003
Messages
2,091
Reaction score
18
Location
SWEDEN
Originally posted by Caldus
But I still do get muscles with these isolation exercises correct?
If you were to fill up a hole with water and you had the choice between a bucket and a spoon. What would you take? The spoon will fill it up with water but it will take alot longer, the bucket will fill it up much shorter. That's a little like the difference between isolation and compound/basic exercises.
 
Top