"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Trying to approach older girls

coolguy676767

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I look older than I really am, I am 17 now, turn 18 in october, but I have been told depending on my clothes I look between 20-25, and high school girls are in general way to immature and dumb for my tastes. They are all about themselves and there reputation, and are hard to approach cause they generally have 5+ friends around them all the time. Lastly my idea of a good time, is more of a party atmosphere rather than the movies.

So I would like to know from you DJ's, what are some of your tips for approaching both high school girls who always seem to be in a large set, becuase there are some here and there that I like, but also what are some of your tips from other people who are my age, but approach older women, such as (18-25). I also would like to know whats the best place to get a fake id, I live in Florida which is a tough state to duplicate, I see sites on the internet, but I just wanted to know if any of you have any sources or places you might have gotten a fake id, because I would like to be able to gain access into some of the clubs around town. Lastly any places you guys use to approach women would be greatly appeciated. Thx in Advance.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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My friends all had military ids and this kid made them new ones and changed the birthdate. 10 kids used them at the same liqour store. After a while they stopped checkin and became cool with the owner. He would give them shooters and beer and sh!t.
 

Blackgame

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on asking older women out, I like the don't ask don't tell
rule and as I said before women really don't care how old
you are as long as you make them feel good

on approaching a group of girls, research a guy named
mystery, he invented a style just for that question
trust me he knows whats he is talking about
he is one of thee most respected pick up artist in the
world, he know makes a **** load of money teaching it to
guys
 

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I think that more than the age difference, you have to worry about 2 other things going on here.


#1: The over-inflated ego of the girls

#2: The fact that you are probably intimidated by approaching them in their "group setting" [well they know that that's why they do it]


for #1 you need to kill their conceit. so this requires you to either turn the tables or neg-hit.

In this example we'll use both a neg-hit and turn the tables, or in other words, show them that you have a bigger head than them, thus more confidence.

for #2 you need to weaken their group approach.
You can do this by manipulating them to fight for the "alpha-wh*re" position in the group.


Now let's put both of these together.

Approach by walking right in the center of them and do a full 360 while giving each one of them personal eye-contact then say:


"Ladies.......I saw you guys looking rather boring over here, my name is <@@@@>, nice for you to meet me.
[wait for response] [respond accordingly] then say:
When I first spotted you six girls over here I rated you individually. two of you are 9s, one of you is an 8, one a 7 and one a 6. Not bad in my opinion that's why I came over."


Of course you never tell them which is which. They will start arguing over who is what. Carry on normally after that.
At some point get each one of their names in the convo and next time you see them indivdually you will be able to build a little personal rapport and talk possibly getting a number.
This can even be done the same night after the group has broken up, and it will pretty fast after they continue the argument that you just so slyly started. :D
 
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