Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trying so hard not to give up.

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Warrior,

Okay, so is this the only position you have right now? So I assume you are selling Advertising to local commercial clients for airing on TV and Radio? Or are you selling other types of Advertising such as that in the Yellow Pages, etc.?

When you say you want to get a business going by serving your own clients, I'm confused as to what you would do differently than you already are doing?

With your industry it depends on the type of dollar of Advertising you are selling and your actual "value" as a consultant. If you feel you are good at selling B2B and are maxed out in your current position, why not sell another product? There's a host of other products you can sell with your 20 years of experience and the fact that you DID complete a college degree (I assume a BA).

I totally understand you on the women side, I'm running into that same problem where the women I WANT don't seem to have high enough interest, versus the women I don't want basically would split their throats over me.

For the career thing, I would seek to sell a totally different product in another industry, move into another territory market (if you have territories), seek to sell another form of Advertising, and/or I would go back to school and seek a Master's/PhD to move into a teaching position for an Advertising course at a local small college.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thanks for the feedback your a bit off the mark but i do appcriate your words. I won't discuss any more about that on an open forum. You understand.
 
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