DavenJuan
Master Don Juan
So i decided to browse a few threads on LTR. What kept coming up in just about everyone i skimmed through were keeping up high IL. Staying desirable.
which made me think a bit..
There is a difference between "trying" to keep high IL and staying desirable, and actually "being" desirable constantly and high IL always excisting no matter what the circimstances.
Being a "DJ" wouldnt consist of having to "keep" up high IL or having to "stay" desirable..it should be a part of your make up and just "be"....right??
Or is it that you always are looking for self improvement that gives you that "status"...knowing your faults and fixing them??
I am sure many of us have read books, the dj bible, read threads on particular situations going on in our current lives in hopes to gain some knowledge and advice on how to handle situatons we may be going through at the time. No matter how many things obtained, read and then practiced, at what point does this become natural...second nature?? not some of it..but ALL knowledge obtained.
Meeting a new HB, new gf, being in a LTR, marriage for 20 years, etc.. are any of us EVER a TRUE DJ? when is this "status" reached? Only when what we have read and obtained become who we are? Are we never to "slip" into AFC ways in certain instances?
If so, how is this status acquired? How do we become so that we dont make ANY AFC mistakes? or is it expect to make those mistakes and learn?
i have made tremoundous progress..i can actually SEE the difference, however is it expected that we EVER reach this "status" of "BEING" ..or simply us "TRYING" with actual "PROGRESSION" to BE consistent with what it is we are looking to accomplish?
input...
which made me think a bit..
There is a difference between "trying" to keep high IL and staying desirable, and actually "being" desirable constantly and high IL always excisting no matter what the circimstances.
Being a "DJ" wouldnt consist of having to "keep" up high IL or having to "stay" desirable..it should be a part of your make up and just "be"....right??
Or is it that you always are looking for self improvement that gives you that "status"...knowing your faults and fixing them??
I am sure many of us have read books, the dj bible, read threads on particular situations going on in our current lives in hopes to gain some knowledge and advice on how to handle situatons we may be going through at the time. No matter how many things obtained, read and then practiced, at what point does this become natural...second nature?? not some of it..but ALL knowledge obtained.
Meeting a new HB, new gf, being in a LTR, marriage for 20 years, etc.. are any of us EVER a TRUE DJ? when is this "status" reached? Only when what we have read and obtained become who we are? Are we never to "slip" into AFC ways in certain instances?
If so, how is this status acquired? How do we become so that we dont make ANY AFC mistakes? or is it expect to make those mistakes and learn?
i have made tremoundous progress..i can actually SEE the difference, however is it expected that we EVER reach this "status" of "BEING" ..or simply us "TRYING" with actual "PROGRESSION" to BE consistent with what it is we are looking to accomplish?
input...