Try to figure this one out - For you DJ toughies

[tactic]

Alright so you got what it takes to see if you know the women's mind or know their 'stuff'? Wel here goes, but this isn't hard stuff... It's pretty easy if you get the truth out of it.

I fancied this girl for a few weeks, but don't ask me if i approached or not, because I did and everything but it wasn't the approach where we get REALLY serious in things. She had BFs and **** so I didn't bother. But that really wasn't the reason why I wouldn't ask her out yet. You can ask my friends for that reason because they know what the fcuk i've been doing over the weeks now.

Alright so I fancied this girl for a weeks, and during the weeks she would look someplace else when im looking at her for something. Not when I'm asking her but when she is the attention. Or when she comes in, I would see who it is and she would look somewhere like she just shfited her eyes to make it so obvious. And then somehow and someday (won't say when) I decided to give up liking her because I'm not her main target, nor am i anyone's but anyhow... Like a day after I stopped liking her, she began to look at me more... and I would talk to her more but in a serious matter to a jokingly way. When I'm just bored outta my mind from the stupid lessons, course, whatever, i would just blankly stare at anything and i would head for her direction when im checking another chick out or some crap, and she would looking not pissed, sad, maybe not distracted, but kinda like serious... but forget i said her emotions or expression... so im staring blankly and then shes looking foward and then i notice her shifting her eyes quickly at me and then back at the front. She does this several times.

Okay, it could be nothing but its really confusing ain't it? Its a big coincidence how a day after I stop liking her, she begins to look more often. I didn't even show her that I stopped liking her, nor might've she known that I did like her before. Are women more clever than we thought? Tell me your thoughts here!

Sorry for the mistakes and **** that I made on the paragraph but I didn't like getting into the details much. You understand, .

 

[Brazilian_Blues_Boy]

There's a scientific explanation for all that...

 

[Smileyz]

now dont it always seem to go that you dont know what you got till its gone?..

yea i liked this girl once,..were really good friends..but you know.not too much affection..but when i did stop liking her... i think i kida showed it to her that i dont have interest no more..

she begins to pay more and more attention...
like when we were in a party.. i have to leave i tell my friends "see ya guys gotta go" we all say gudbye then she says "ill guide you out" our sumthing like that "ill accompany you on your way out.." despite her boyfirnend, ex rather being beside her....kewl

 

[Jerky Boi]

Anytime, regardless of their IL in you at the time, if you begin to stop showing interest and slowly shift away from them, their interest in you will grow. But basically, since you're showing less interest in her, she's wondering why you've suddenly changed your mind about her.

 

[Ak89]

ya this girl in my class does something similar. She pays no attention to me and then when i'm not paying any attention or not speaking to no one she would sit closer to me.

But she still says nothing. Sometimes if i say something to her she would act as if shes in a bad mood. But then sometimes she would talk with me

 

[Craig Reeves]

It's something that I've known for quite some time. Women can sometimes just "sense" when a guy is interested in them. They themselves might not know what it is they are feeling, but they certainly know what it is when it is no longer there.

In other words....in the back of her mind she knew that you like her....she wasn't exactly sure, but in the back of her mind she knew. Once you STOPPED liking her, you very subtly acted different toward her, and she kind of picked up on that.....so she was like, "oh wow, he doesn't like me anymore....I wonder why? Is it another girl who's prettier than me, or is it something he found out about me?" kind of deal. This, or she could have known all along that you like her, and now that all of a sudden stop liking her anymore, she gets uncomfortable because she isn't used to you not liking her like that anymore.

This happens alot. But you didn't DECIDE to stop liking this girl....you can't control who you like....just like she can't really control feeling uncomfortable about you not liking her anymore...you just didn't feel it for her anymore.

 

[California Love]

Shes neurotic and simply views you as another challenge. She has no true feelings for you, and I doubt there is any true chemistry between you two. You should definitely pass this one over and think no more of it.

 

[tactic]

Craig, did you know that I controlled how to feel for things? It may sound ridiciolous but I can feel confident, good, sad whenever but it has a certain extended limit to where i can go further. I could never (for some reason) feel low on confidence, i just don't feel it. I probaly feel agitated and tired, but that is all. Whether I should or not like her, it was my desiscion(sp?). Whatever I claimed, I claimed. It was hard as hell to control my emotions. Its actually impossible to control emotions but It just somehow happened inside me that i could no longer feel true pain.

California Love, you can't prove that she never had interest, nor can I. We are humans and we live in the real nature. Women are complex, and I might never know if she did have interest or not. If you had my eyes and brain like a camcorder, I wouldn't have to explain this further about the past.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

hmmm even tactic suffers from overthinking! I think that whole "girls can sense when a guy likes them" thing is pure BS. They might be predisposed to better social skills but they aint got a sensor or some sh!t like that.

It WAS conincidince that she started to look at you more when you stopped looking at her (although it would be hard for you to determine that without looking at her)

If the approaches aren't going well, or you can't get into her personal space and get some kino, I suggest that you move on to another chick or at least create that illusion so she knows you won't wait around for her.

Lol, as for the whole "camcorder into your brain" sh!t I know what you tallking bout. None of your friends ever pick up on it. It's one of those things you gotta see for yourself. Try looking at her into her eyes with some passion or something man. Staring blankly at her does nothing. You want to have a conscious layer and a sub-conscious layer. You can about the weather if ya want, but if you got the sexual undertones with simmering eye contact, and just a couple subtle hints of innuendo, and you'll keep em up at night pondering what you meant when you described the "fleeting snow"