squirrels
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 15, 2003
- Messages
- 6,634
- Reaction score
- 180
- Age
- 44
Go out one night this weekend JUST TO GO OUT. Don't worry about women, or pick-ups, or the DJ message board, or ANYTHING.
I went out tonight with a different idea in mind. Lately, every time I've gone out, the "success" of the evening has been hinged on whether or not I pulled some girl out of the bar/club/etc.
Tonight I went out determined to do one thing: ENJOY MYSELF.
To me, this seems essential...you MUST be able to enjoy yourself on your own before you can expect other people to enjoy your company. There were a few chicks who exchanged eye contact or showed mild interest, but in the end, tonight was about ME. I re-established my goal for "going out"...that is, to have a good time. Regardless of what these women said or did, I am in control of MYSELF and *I* had a good time, while a lot of these women had fun until like midnight-1AM, where they started desperately searching for a guy to approve of them, so they could tell their friends tomorrow morning.
Remember, women do NOT control your life if you are a REAL DJ. You are in control of yourself. You can enjoy life with or without a woman...she merely enhances the experience. Make her work for it. And if she won't, then remember that YOU are special...you have your OWN life and are perfectly capable of having a good time with or WITHOUT female companionship.
I went out tonight with a different idea in mind. Lately, every time I've gone out, the "success" of the evening has been hinged on whether or not I pulled some girl out of the bar/club/etc.
Tonight I went out determined to do one thing: ENJOY MYSELF.
To me, this seems essential...you MUST be able to enjoy yourself on your own before you can expect other people to enjoy your company. There were a few chicks who exchanged eye contact or showed mild interest, but in the end, tonight was about ME. I re-established my goal for "going out"...that is, to have a good time. Regardless of what these women said or did, I am in control of MYSELF and *I* had a good time, while a lot of these women had fun until like midnight-1AM, where they started desperately searching for a guy to approve of them, so they could tell their friends tomorrow morning.
Remember, women do NOT control your life if you are a REAL DJ. You are in control of yourself. You can enjoy life with or without a woman...she merely enhances the experience. Make her work for it. And if she won't, then remember that YOU are special...you have your OWN life and are perfectly capable of having a good time with or WITHOUT female companionship.