Try this.

[LuckyStrike88]

Stop thinking on what to do in the moment.

Actually do your best not to think about anything at all, only what directly benefits what you want and that you are without a doubt certain of will benefit what you want.

You might have to let things go that don't benefit you, it can be things, people, and people you are very attached to. Get rid of all that sh1t. You only let people into your life that bring you up or spent energy on things that benefit you.

All right you've just gotten rid of all things and people that hold you back and will only think about spending energy on things that benefit you.

You might feel empty, no one to talk or interact with at the moment. Nothing coming to mind that benefit you. It sucks, you feel empty.

Just relax hangout on your own not doing anything special, do you job, work out, all the basics. Do everything "right".

Then, everything and every person you come across that you feel is worthy, you will embrace. And it will make your life better, you will gradually become happier and more successful without really having to deal with any unnecessary issues.

 

[G_Govan]

Well said. When I started putting this into practice my life improved exponentially.

I no longer feel obligated to hang out with people who I feel provide a negative energy balance to my life.

Part of you feels like you're abandoning friends but if you really sit back and think about it, if the positives don't outweigh the negatives than it's simply unhealthy.

Some people will give a measured amount of "friendliness" to keep you around but certain actions/words will make you question how genuine it all really is.

What makes it worse is I think they aren't actually aware they're doing it so of course confronting them about it will only lead to defensiveness and finger pointing.

Great to get away from that.

 

[Casillas]

Being alone isn’t’ necessarily a bad thing, as there are a handful of benefits that emerge once you learn to embrace solitude.

For example when you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll gain a greater perspective for your own emotions. You’ll create a deeper understanding of what makes you happy, what upsets you, and what saddens you. This is very helpful for every DJ.

 

[blind_one]

Being alone isn’t’ necessarily a bad thing, as there are a handful of benefits that emerge once you learn to embrace solitude.

For example when you start to enjoy being alone, you’ll gain a greater perspective for your own emotions. You’ll create a deeper understanding of what makes you happy, what upsets you, and what saddens you. This is very helpful for every DJ.

I fully agree.

A long time ago I've heard something along the lines of :

Finding the joy of solitude. You cannot be comfortable with women ( or people for that matter ) if you cannot be comfortable with yourself.