"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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try this,it works like charm

blinkwatt

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ok well i have been doing this for a year now without really noticing it till my friends told me yesterday"hey did you see the smile on her face when you tsaid that?"
alright well whenever i go anywhere were i ask for help/order food/get seated/etc. i always say"thanks,your the best"and smile after i say it while looking at whoever i said it to.
a example i placed a order at a burger joint and the lady said she would bring out my food to me well then i said"thanks your the best" and gave me the biggest smile and said "thank you"
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The DomMega

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I've done similar things in the past, I can't say it did too much. I tend to go in other directions if I want to bang waitresses or fast food help. Have you banged anyone you've said this to thus far? If so, cool but I don't believe such things would work out here in Cali. The women out here are of a different breed and such things wouldn't excite them.
 

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hold up....let me get this straight.


Girls.....LIKE IT when you are nice??????


O........M...........G


Duh....just they dont like it when you are spineless....keep pimpin playas
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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