kdnash82
Master Don Juan
I'm not gonna go into a whole ordeal about what women think or want. I'm just going off what I did and realized.
If you want more social proof.. Throw a party. It's as simple as that. The problem is, you have to throw a good party. It can be inexpensive also, but only if your friends are people who aren't dead beat bumbs.
First off, invite as many people as possible. The more the better. Let them know that they can bring whoever they want, doesn't matter. The trick is to get the people you invite to bring a bottle or case of alcohol with them to the party. If everyone you invite brings over a bottle or case, not only have you stocked your bar for free, but whatever doesn't gets drunken that night will be there for the next party you throw. Order pizza. Don't worry about calling Pizza Hut or Dominoes. Go to your local pizza place. They'll have better deals. Pizza might not taste as good, but who cares when you're drinking.
Second, greet your guest. It's your party so this is your chance to talk to those girls that you would have been intimidated by. Let them know they're in your place. You're the one who throw this bad a** party. You organized it so that all these people would come together for a good time. Don't linger too long on one group of people. Focus on everybody equally. Be a man! Give out high fives! Do some WHOO HOOS!! You want people to think you're fun to be around. It's a party have fun!!
Great... now you've mingled. People love someone who can throw a nice party. If it turns out nice, they're gonna wanna know when the next one is gonna be. This is your opportunity to get phone numbers. Don't feel intimidated or scared, because it's your party. Let them know you'll be doing it again and that you'd like to invite them to the next one. Give your phone number to them. The next time they throw a party, they'll want you there. Why? Because you brought all these people together for your party. They'll want the same for theirs.
Don't focus on just getting chicks numbers. Get the guys numbers too. Guys know girls that you don't know. They also know other guys who know girls you don't know. The cycle continues. If your party is a success, they'll invite you to their female friends. "Hey Bob, this is my friend Mindy. Mindy this is the guy who threw this bad a** party!"
Talk Talk Talk. The ladies now know it's your party. They're in your cave. Your territory. Talk with as many as you can. Use your DJ skills. If you're up to it. Close one for a date the next afternoon. At this point, the sky's the limit. Talk with the guys too, so when you come over and talk to some chick he's with, he knows who you are and doesn't get all pissed.
After the party is over and you have all of these phone numbers, don't rush to start calling every chick you got a number from. Instead, send out a mass text message to every number you got (guys and girls). Thank them for coming to your party. Let them know you're gonna do it again. Don't say when. They'll sit there wondering when the next big party is gonna be. They know the next time they hear from you, there is gonna be an event they'll want to be at.
Now after all it's said and done, you have to throw another party. I know.. it sucks right? Dude!! Those same chicks you were talking to the last time, are gonna come to party with you AGAIN! This time, they know who you are. They're more comfortable. They'll bring more chicks and actually introduce you to them. I honestly don't think it gets any better than a chick doing all the dirty work for you. She's being your wing man and doesn't even know it.
Use your DJ skills and have fun doing it. Let me know what you guys think. If you feel like something could be done better, share. Thanks for reading.
If you want more social proof.. Throw a party. It's as simple as that. The problem is, you have to throw a good party. It can be inexpensive also, but only if your friends are people who aren't dead beat bumbs.
First off, invite as many people as possible. The more the better. Let them know that they can bring whoever they want, doesn't matter. The trick is to get the people you invite to bring a bottle or case of alcohol with them to the party. If everyone you invite brings over a bottle or case, not only have you stocked your bar for free, but whatever doesn't gets drunken that night will be there for the next party you throw. Order pizza. Don't worry about calling Pizza Hut or Dominoes. Go to your local pizza place. They'll have better deals. Pizza might not taste as good, but who cares when you're drinking.
Second, greet your guest. It's your party so this is your chance to talk to those girls that you would have been intimidated by. Let them know they're in your place. You're the one who throw this bad a** party. You organized it so that all these people would come together for a good time. Don't linger too long on one group of people. Focus on everybody equally. Be a man! Give out high fives! Do some WHOO HOOS!! You want people to think you're fun to be around. It's a party have fun!!
Great... now you've mingled. People love someone who can throw a nice party. If it turns out nice, they're gonna wanna know when the next one is gonna be. This is your opportunity to get phone numbers. Don't feel intimidated or scared, because it's your party. Let them know you'll be doing it again and that you'd like to invite them to the next one. Give your phone number to them. The next time they throw a party, they'll want you there. Why? Because you brought all these people together for your party. They'll want the same for theirs.
Don't focus on just getting chicks numbers. Get the guys numbers too. Guys know girls that you don't know. They also know other guys who know girls you don't know. The cycle continues. If your party is a success, they'll invite you to their female friends. "Hey Bob, this is my friend Mindy. Mindy this is the guy who threw this bad a** party!"
Talk Talk Talk. The ladies now know it's your party. They're in your cave. Your territory. Talk with as many as you can. Use your DJ skills. If you're up to it. Close one for a date the next afternoon. At this point, the sky's the limit. Talk with the guys too, so when you come over and talk to some chick he's with, he knows who you are and doesn't get all pissed.
After the party is over and you have all of these phone numbers, don't rush to start calling every chick you got a number from. Instead, send out a mass text message to every number you got (guys and girls). Thank them for coming to your party. Let them know you're gonna do it again. Don't say when. They'll sit there wondering when the next big party is gonna be. They know the next time they hear from you, there is gonna be an event they'll want to be at.
Now after all it's said and done, you have to throw another party. I know.. it sucks right? Dude!! Those same chicks you were talking to the last time, are gonna come to party with you AGAIN! This time, they know who you are. They're more comfortable. They'll bring more chicks and actually introduce you to them. I honestly don't think it gets any better than a chick doing all the dirty work for you. She's being your wing man and doesn't even know it.
Use your DJ skills and have fun doing it. Let me know what you guys think. If you feel like something could be done better, share. Thanks for reading.
Don't get aids or anything