"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Try not Drinking alcohol...it's MUCH better!

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Like anything else, moderation is key. I'll admit back in the day and even now with the wife, if I was a little buzzed my C&F was bulletproof. The problem is that more alcohol impairs judgement and your ability to accurately read a woman. It's a similar case in liquoring up a potential girl - it's a fine art - you have to estimate how much will get a girl's inhibitions down, but not push her over the edge into being too sh!tfaced to want to fvck. Bartenders know this perfectly, I've had bartending friends show me how to accurately measure a 'pantydropper' by estimating a womans bodyweight and height. Heheh,..evil, I know, but it works.

However it also works on you too. Getting pasted to the point where you cant 'perform' isn't productive either, but just enough to lower your own inhibitions is useful. It's knowing how to apply alcohol and having the self-control to maintain it is the key.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by quest
so many p*ssies at this site..

i get totalled every weekend and i've got a hell of alot of great stories from the stupid sh*t i do when i'm drunk..

got alot of ONS whilst being drunk.

its not AFC, it doesn't affect your game for better or worse, if u have real game to start with.

it is bad for ur health/looks (beer belly)

but for the stories i get, i wouldn't dare stop drinking..
drinking is AFC.

If you need alcohol to approach, you are an AFC. You dont have BALLS. Drinking may give you good stories, but it doesn't give you good game. Get drunk and your game suffers. Don't try to dispute that b/c it's a fact.

For example, lets say you see a really hot girl with another girl and a guy. How do you approach? When you are drinking you cannot process such complex situations. Actually the answer her is pretty straight forward... you approach the guy. You need to be sober to run a good solid game in a club.

You can pull chicks still, if you are durnk. I've done it many times.

But it's FOOLS MATE. You won't get to f*ck them and they'll have buyers remorse for just kissing you the next day usually.

Lastly, drinking is AFC.
 

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Go out to enjoy yourself not just to pull.
 

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I don't have a clue what some of you are saying. I've never worried about saving money, there are tons of bars that have 2 for 1 drinks or some kinds of specials if you look for them. I've gone out some nights and gotten competely wasted off of 20 bucks.

I never worry about driving because If I'm too wasted to drive (Yes I know when this is) I'll just split a cab with a few friends back home. Or even better a hot girl who's sober and into me will take me back to her place and I'll rail her. I've had tourist chicks prop me up before as they walked me back to their room.

Beer goggles are a myth at best. Too many guys use drunkeness as an excuse for lowering standards. I focus on the same chicks the whole nights and when i'm drunk i'm no more receptive to advances by girls who i'm not into, in fact i'm less polite when a girl i'm not atracted to makes an attempt while i'm focused on something else (drinking or a chick I am interested in)

Believe it or not THERE ARE GIRLS WHO LIKE TO DRINK. I was at a party where there were girls challanging me to beirut left and right. I'm pretty good so I ghosted a lot of them but that didn't deter them from asking for a rematch. I don't know how many times I've finshed my beer and a girl has either bought me a new one without me even asking.

Alcohol is a social drug and people socialize with it. It doesn't really matter to me because I just like to drink. I've drank since I was 14 and I'll probably drink till the day I die. If you're smart about it, it's a really good time. If you HAVE to use it as a crutch then you've got problems, but like I said I drink because I want to drink, not becasue it gives me some fictious super powers.

If you're going to drink, drink for the right reasons because you like drinking. I like the taste of alcholic beverages. The tartness of beer, the sting of whiskey, the smoothness of gin, the warmth of rum, the punch of tequila, I love it all. I'm in no way a better DJ while drinking because I do the bulk of my footwork while sober but most of the girls I've met have been in bars, or clubs or whatever where I'm nearly always drinking.

Drink or don't but reasoning for not drinking should have nothing to do with girls or gaming. Unless you're a rookie or a serious alcoholic (a screw driver for breakfest sir?... That's just wrong) drinking can be a really good time for you and your friends. If you HAVE to use alcohol to work up the nerve to get chicks then you're definately on the wrong track. Focus on the funtamentals then try to run with the big dogs. But if you have a tolorance for alcohol then obviously drinking doesn't really mean that much. If you don't start getting drunk until the bar closes, then any girls you hit on between your first and last thing you were pretty much sober talking to anyway.

Drink because you're a drinker, not to score chicks.
 
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