Try and try again?

[JohnChops]

Just a question, grabbed this girls number. We started talking and found out we had a lot in common, fine. So the same day i get her number i ask her if she wanted to hangout that night. No response. Its been a couple days now.

Obviously I was clearly ignored here, shall I try calling her up again and be persistent or should i just chalk this off and shift my time else where? Im just curious because im having trouble figuring out the difference between creepy and persistence. Dont really want to cross that line.

 

[youngmack]

I think you should hit her up one more time. If she does not respond or whatever then next her and who cares what she thinks of you? Don't care about the outcome bro.

 

[mr. kennedy]

Did you text her or call her?

I realized the hotter the chick, the better the odds to get on a date with her if you call.

I once got the number of a HB9 online. I texted her and she never responded. I called her 2 days later and she answered and we then set up a date.

 

[Dust 2 Dust]

In my experience calling a second time after getting ignored is just beating a dead horse. I'd leave the ball in her court and delete her number.

I also wouldn't have called her the same day as getting her number. I prefer to wait a few days and let them wonder if I'm gonna call or not.

 

[Purefilth]

i've been ignored before - but then a couple days later I tried one more time, got the date - did my thing and she ended up chasing

If youre ignored straight after the number grab - yes its disrespectful but to her you are still just a guy she gave her number to.

I'm all for giving it a second try then when you meet you can make her build an emotional attachment with you.

Try again - but no messing about. Straight to business (or pleasure as it were)

 

[Brosy]

+1 for 2 tries max.

1st ignore, albeit rude, is her feigning indifference. 2nd ignore is a much louder silence.

The basis of female game: "don't seem too eager"

 

[JohnChops]

Good stuff Brosy and Filth, thats what I was going to do anyway just kind of wanted to see the boards perspective. Great stuff, ill ring her this week and see whats going on.