"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Try again?

Bronxtal112

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I have not been to this forum in a very long time. Just need a perspective about a current situation. I was talking to this one girl roughly 6 years ago and then went separate ways (college etc..). and never talked again. I just ran in to her and talked briefly. Ironically, she became best friends with my buddy's current girlfriend. She is now single and so am I. Should I try again with her?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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usually couple months kind of allows you to start fresh with the same girl you messed up on a long time ago. Usually its because of the period of no contact whatsoever. As for me 2 years ago I (AFC back then)messed up with a girl..couple months later i didn't see her...then once a year went by she started to become really interested

well yea....6 years is a pretty long time...so its a go :)
 
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