"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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how do you successfully ignore truth/reality if something disturbing you
or popping up in your head

Truth is hard to sell
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why ignore truth or reality?

Why not confront the truth and change it for the better?

Those who ignore reality are said to be in denial.

When you have a set-back in life, sometimes you will go in denial.. whether it be losing your job, losing your girl, or realizing that you are not what you should be. In order to get over these things you need to come to terms on why they originated. If you ignore the causes, you will just fall right back into the trap. This is the basis of self-improvement.

If you lie to yourself, then there isn't much left of you that is worth anything. If you cannot be truthful with yourself, then you cannot continue to improve.
 

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You want to suppress reality?

Unfortunately it can't be done. You can't have just the good, its a package deal. Love and hate. Pain and pleasure. Without the bad, the good is not as sweet.

You've got to accept things as they are. They are as they have always been, and they always will be. Why fight it? You're only going to hurt yourself in the end.



Now, you mentioned thoughts. Thoughts like what?

Negative thoughts about yourself?
Thoughts of desire and dreams?
Weird ****?
Thoughts of past & present events?


You're going to have to be a little more specific.
 

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I say the most popular method is: Not giving a fvck.

Seriously, when you ignore truth, you are not just spitting on yourself, but also everyone who ever interacts with you.

You will not get far by ignoring truth, and the places you do get with it will be sad.
 

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Ron Paul

Ron paul has lot of truth
it just disturbs me that he is hidden by powerfull MEDIA

some of americans ask who is ron paul ?
they know britney spears shaved her head
paris hilton had seex taape

I am not powerfull enough to make changes ,whats disturbing me
Im trying to ignore
these things just pop up once in a while in my mind

p.s this is nothing to do with women.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Who gives a damn about Paris Hilton? What does it have to do with anything? Even Ron Paul. Let Ron Paul worry about Ron Paul.

Seriously, you should look into a hobby or something.
 

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TruthisTruth, you claim that you are not powerful enough to make a difference and that may be true, but although you may not have the ability to make a difference, you do have the capacity to form the ability that you need.

If you like Ron Paul, you need to go over to ronpaulforums.com and get involved there.

Also, you cannot worry about the things out of your control, for there certainly are things that are uncontrollable.
 

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Just because you're thinking it doesn't mean it's true.

"I am going to die!" - true.

"OMFG ADGMADFHBNDA I'M GONNA DIE NOOOO!!!!" - false, because the emotional charge you've added to it is completely unwarrented.
 
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