"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Truth About Sexuality

Jay Julio

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Hey guys,

Here's a book some of you may be interested in reading, concerning the natural relationship between Man and Woman. It starts off a little slow, but after the first few chapters, it gets in depth:

http://gsns.org/images/pdf/he_ocr.pdf

To anyone who reads it, I'd love to your opinions and feedback on it.

P.S. It's written by a woman!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I guess if you're into reading intricate books and manifestos based on how you should be acting to achieve manliness, go ahead.
I can't read that, though. It's really dry.
I'm more for reading fiction and such, and going out and doing things to learn.
 

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Sneevox said:
I guess if you're into reading intricate books and manifestos based on how you should be acting to achieve manliness, go ahead.
I can't read that, though. It's really dry.
I'm more for reading fiction and such, and going out and doing things to learn.

@Sneevox - Sure its pretty dry book and reads like a research paper,but this guy is on another level of understanding when it comes to dating.I got quickly bored but looks like the book has deep things to say.Would give it a try later in life.Go search for Jay's articles on google.They are gold!


@Jay Julio - Its not the right place but somehow I can't PM you.I have questions about your another post here,Crash Course on Masculine Power.If you would like to answer,I may post the questions there.
 

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I think you already know why anyone would be interested in that post.For me,it easily qualifies as one of the most important advice I have ever read.

I have always been fascinated by how some people have a certain powerful aura about them.Even if they don't speak a word you sense something is special about them by the way they carry themselves,their body movements or just from the look on their face.


After Applying what I have yet understood of that article,I was behaving in ways typical of alpha guys.To put in short,there were no signs of anxiety or fear.Nothing felt intimidating in those moments of high receptivity.I was just acting on my instinct and it felt powerful.Needless to say other felt it too.You get elevated to a higher state of consciousness,suddenly you become aware of NOW.In one word the feeling was Ecstatic!

So I would post the questions soon.But first of all is there any resource to read more on this topic or are you the first person ever to put it in words? ;)
 

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Why does this whole thread sound like a long, drawn out advertisement?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Puru13

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Hey Jay,I posted the questions.Take a look here
 
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