Cerwin Vega
Master Don Juan
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QuxipzVtqz0
ugh. I already see the frightened "THIS VIDEO IS ALL LIES!" comments.
ugh. I already see the frightened "THIS VIDEO IS ALL LIES!" comments.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
As a christian (or former one). I'm not sure I honestly believe. But I was home-schooled. I've been taught to be good to people. Help those in need. Respect people who are different than me. Be honest, work hard, and doing these to things will reap benefits.Maximus Rex said:The problem with Islam (especially in the Middle East,) the religion has yet to go thought what Christianity, experienced about five hundred years ago, and that's a reformation. Also, a big thing that's hindering the Islamic faith, is that extremists are the face of and control mainstream. The equivalent of this in the Christiandom would be the Westboro Baptist Church being accepted as the face of modern Christianity.
Moderate and liberal Muslims have to step up and let the rest of the world know that they're not about this jihadist life, (which most of them aren't,) you can't tell me that out of a religion of a being plus people, that the majority of them support this jihadist bulls*t. However, the sh*t get's problematic because it's so many Muslims in the world. With my f*cked up math, even of only 1% if the world's Muslims ever with the "jihadist-kill-the-infidel," movement, you're talking about million people.
....is that it is BS and not true. It teaches you to kill others. It's a fake religion that tells you what you want to hear, thus it appeals to weak people.Maximus Rex said:The problem with Islam
Again and to be fair it's not a patch on the religion constantly pushed by the other Semitic tribe. Cultural Marxism has them covered.noobolgy said:Its a hate murder religion. I teaches supremacy. Muslims believe they should have the best of everything.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.