Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Trusting your gut vs. Wishful Thinking?

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I've been reading many great posts since I discovered this website especially the posts on approaching girls and attractions signs. I see the recurring theme of trusting your gut and that your first instinct is the most rational one. There's this girl I'm interested in that seems to be reciprocating my feelings. However, I'm not sure whether it's legitimate or it's just me misinterpreting the way she acts around me as flirting or it's all wishful thinking. I could provide examples of my conflicting thoughts if you want.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aspiring Don Juan said:
I've been reading many great posts since I discovered this website especially the posts on approaching girls and attractions signs. I see the recurring theme of trusting your gut and that your first instinct is the most rational one. There's this girl I'm interested in that seems to be reciprocating my feelings. However, I'm not sure whether it's legitimate or it's just me misinterpreting the way she acts around me as flirting or it's all wishful thinking. I could provide examples of my conflicting thoughts if you want.
Women are a lot like water and here you are trying to grab it and hold onto it as if it was some solid object? Do you not see the rivers and how the rocks try to stop the flow but the water still plows around, above or finds another way?

Stop trying to "read" her signs she probably does not know herself. What her biological senses know though is she wants a MAN.

So stop fiddling around and just assume she is yours by your actions until she a. accepts it or b. she tells you she is not interested.

In the case of B. its perfectly fine there are hundreds more of them out there.
 
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So you're suggesting that I should assume she likes me, act in that manner, and she actually will?
 
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So you're suggesting that I should assume she likes me, act in that manner, and she actually will?
Who cares? Women like dogs can smell uncertainty and fear. Act as if. If it works it works if it does not who cares as long as your having fun?
 
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