"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Trusting your gut vs. Wishful Thinking?

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I've been reading many great posts since I discovered this website especially the posts on approaching girls and attractions signs. I see the recurring theme of trusting your gut and that your first instinct is the most rational one. There's this girl I'm interested in that seems to be reciprocating my feelings. However, I'm not sure whether it's legitimate or it's just me misinterpreting the way she acts around me as flirting or it's all wishful thinking. I could provide examples of my conflicting thoughts if you want.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aspiring Don Juan said:
I've been reading many great posts since I discovered this website especially the posts on approaching girls and attractions signs. I see the recurring theme of trusting your gut and that your first instinct is the most rational one. There's this girl I'm interested in that seems to be reciprocating my feelings. However, I'm not sure whether it's legitimate or it's just me misinterpreting the way she acts around me as flirting or it's all wishful thinking. I could provide examples of my conflicting thoughts if you want.
Women are a lot like water and here you are trying to grab it and hold onto it as if it was some solid object? Do you not see the rivers and how the rocks try to stop the flow but the water still plows around, above or finds another way?

Stop trying to "read" her signs she probably does not know herself. What her biological senses know though is she wants a MAN.

So stop fiddling around and just assume she is yours by your actions until she a. accepts it or b. she tells you she is not interested.

In the case of B. its perfectly fine there are hundreds more of them out there.
 
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So you're suggesting that I should assume she likes me, act in that manner, and she actually will?
 
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So you're suggesting that I should assume she likes me, act in that manner, and she actually will?
Who cares? Women like dogs can smell uncertainty and fear. Act as if. If it works it works if it does not who cares as long as your having fun?
 
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