"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Trust

H

heater528

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 9, 2004
Messages
164
Reaction score
1
Ok guys i have been on this forum for almost 3-4 years now. I have learned a great deal and am able to attract pretty much anygirl i want. My problem lies once i get a longterm relationship. I have read so many horror stories and have studied how females operate and cant help but having no trust in the person i am with. Its like a curse!! Should these feelings be lingering in me. Im with a great girl now... everything ive ever looked for have her interest level through the roof but i cant help but think one day she will flake and i will need to walk away, one day she will cheat and i will need to move on... so on and so on... Does anyone have any clue what is causing these feelings in me and how to remedy them ?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

S

Spook

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 22, 2006
Messages
33
Reaction score
0
How old are you? It's pretty natural when you're younger to mistrust chicks. It's partially due to insecurity, and partially due to risk management. But if you're like 25 or so and still lack trust, then it's all due to insecurity. Chill out and relax man. Trust yourself first, then you can trust the chick. (unless she's untrustworthy as a person)
 
E

ethnomethodologist

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jan 2, 2006
Messages
1,180
Reaction score
2
Location
Out of the box
Um, speak to her about them. Tease her about other men...

The reason you have the feeling, is because you desire it for yourself. Whether you can admit that to her, is your problem.

You can't spy on her at all times.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top