"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Trust issues?

Moofahsa

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Anyone got major jealousy issues? ****in makes me sick to my stomach.

Chick took her ex with her to the grocery store, had no reason to...but she told me about it.

Chick has another ex's sister watch her son.

Talks to another ex all the time in text messages.

Am I paranoid or should I just ditch the *****? Best piece of ass I ever had, and I really do have feelings for her...but this whole trust thing is keeping me up at night.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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T-Roy

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Eh. I'm friends with all my Ex girlfriends. I wouldn't worry too much. They are probably just like me. Besides. You got the girl right? They couldn't hold on to her. So your the winner.:yes:

If your really worried get your game up an extra notch. ^_^
 
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She is just the next hor in line!! Quit being an emotional fool!!!
 
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