"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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True Story: I Dated An Ex-Pickup Artist (Article)

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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zinc4

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She is definitely feminist sounding but i think some guys doing the whole PUA thing are definitely a little jaded and aren't good in actual relationships because the tricks where off at that point and it becomes who you really are and how you can relate without being needy....i see a lot of guys on here who get the girl and then freak out in a relationship and let insecurity get the best of them...this guy sounds like one of them not to mention some people doing PUA can be too robotic and not really able to deeply relate with another person...have seen that on here as well....let's be honest, this type of thing does tend to attract odd characters at times...
 

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There's two sides to this...

1. She got laid in college. He probably didn't, so he had his ONS' later on in his late 20s. She looks down on him for this. It's not that he had ONS'. She thinks he's a loser because he had them LATER in life. This isn't fair.

2. On the other hand, I think too much pickup artistry could make some guys more jaded, cynical, and unlikely to fully commit to a relationship. I can see this side too.
 

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if that is her in the picture, she gets a 0 bro

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if feminist didn't exist, we wouldn't have PUA's because we would be getting it just fine.
 
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hahaha i was thinking the same...if that is her then she couldn't have been dating a real PUA...she is not hot at all...not even good looking
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Check out her photos.

Gahh. She looks like a plain-jane, post wall woman. Frumpy body + unattractive = projecting in article.

"Look at that! That ugly girl turned down a PUA! Lets celebrate her and her ego!" - said nobody ever
 

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This girl sounds like a twwat.

She even says it in the article: "At times I may have a fleeting thought, that maybe, just maybe, I am a ***t..."
 

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"he wanted to wear the pants (outside the bedroom, I mean) not as a choice we made together but because he thought he had to"
This made me laugh. hard. Can you say entitlement issues?
 

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Like most women she wants to feel commended and the best way to do that is devalue the man through shaming and reassert her female entitlement. She will form her article and pov to resolve any lingering doubts that maybe she is or was a ****t and to relieve the itch on her *****y that this big bad pua left with a scratch and a high five to her rationalizing from the other ****s out there.

It also looks like she has been overly indulging in sympathy rice crispy squares and tang. Good on ya girl.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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When she says "pick-up artist", does she mean one of those hunters from the TV show Whale Wars?


~BSmooth
 

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I just saw her real photo...holy sh&t...i think we can all agree that any guy who would date her is not what you would call a successful or legit PUA...it would be an extreme beta...i would never ever date someone of her looks level...i don't even think she is drunken hookup material looks wise....you would have to be pretty damn desperate to hit that on a regular basis and call her your GF
 

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I wouldn't be caught dead with a straight up walrus like that.. Some "PUA" that guy was...
 
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