"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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defiancy

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Anyone know any posts telling you if a girl bses her way out of a date or not ( a real excuse)

Lately I have a girl whos interested in me, she talks to me over AIM and last time she actually ran up to me to talk for a while, but her excuse was this when I asked her:

i don't think i can cuz my dad is picking me up


I really don't want to be stuck in some excuse bs, so any way to figure this out, because I might ask again to surely find out...
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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chancer

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There are no excuses. If a girl's not kiss-ass making it up to you, then move on. Girls are not to be analyzed... Don't waste your time. Ease your mind.
 

Jariel

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If a girl cancels, I usually wait for her to make the next move. If she's interested, she will, if she's not interested, she won't and it saves a lot of time.
 

Climax

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She needs time....

Originally posted by Jariel
If a girl cancels, I usually wait for her to make the next move. If she's interested, she will, if she's not interested, she won't and it saves a lot of time.

This is true... but rather than not asking at all, u might want to maybe HINT it to her, because for all you know, she might be too shy to bring it up, and she might be thinking to herself " when is he gonna ask me again?!?" :rolleyes: ;)

defiancy: Dont just give up on her, maybe she is just shy or needs to get to know you better and/or feel mor comfortable around u... So what i would suggest you do is try spend more time with her whever u see her, and in a week or 2 (of seeing her in person and making her feel more confortable with you) u can ask her again.

Look at it this way.. eventhough you DO spk to her on AIM, u are STILL a stranger to her in person.


Laterz...
 

defiancy

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Re: She needs time....

Originally posted by ~ªêQµïTª$~
This is true... but rather than not asking at all, u might want to maybe HINT it to her, because for all you know, she might be too shy to bring it up, and she might be thinking to herself " when is he gonna ask me again?!?" :rolleyes: ;)

defiancy: Dont just give up on her, maybe she is just shy or needs to get to know you better and/or feel mor comfortable around u... So what i would suggest you do is try spend more time with her whever u see her, and in a week or 2 (of seeing her in person and making her feel more confortable with you) u can ask her again.

Look at it this way.. eventhough you DO spk to her on AIM, u are STILL a stranger to her in person.


Laterz...

Thanks...*nods head...I only DJed her a week ago so that might be
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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