lerxst
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Does it exist or is it only a fantasy? What is it and how do you know when/if you got it? Is it attainable? Is it a delusion?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
True Love?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
trajhenkhet
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Word on the street is that it takes a lot of time to establish.
There was a little discussion about that a couple of days ago.
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32456
http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32456
lerxst
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Ok, reading through that link seemed like another I was an AFC, and now I'm gonna be a DJ thread. It didn't answer most of the questioned presented above. I'm not talking about 'love' in general, but what is called 'true love'. Also, is it compatible with the DJ lifestyle?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
here's what i think: most people on this board seem to have become (or are trying to become) DJs for the sake of banging as many chicks as they can. there doesn't seem to be many who pick up DJ skills for the sake of finding a quality girl to have a serious LTR with, and possibly to spend a lifetime with. And then there are those who play the middle game: search for "the-one" and bang a few chicks along the way.is it compatible with the DJ lifestyle?
if you're out to have sex and not to find a girl who you want to just "be" with, then you probably won't attain true love (simply because you don't want to). DJ skills, used correctly and honourably, allow you to dig deep into a girl to find out what she's really like. Once you've achieved that and have found out what you want to know, falling in love with her is your decision.
you'll know when you've attained true love. things will just be......different. you may not feel the need to be a DJ anymore when it happens. the girl will probably be more important to you than you are to yourself. you won't have to think about DJ behaviour when around her since you can just be real and natural because she loves you for it.
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A boy must become a man first to hold on to a woman