"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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True love.

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Gomorg

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So I notice everyone here seems to have been a chump at one point or got dumped/broken up from a LTR before transforming into a Don Juan. I wonder if anyone on this forum thinks there is such a thing as true love or sees this as fictional. It would be interesting to hear your responses.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I think that's a pretty damn good question. Personally, I feel like there such a thing as true love (not as some mystical thing that is destined to happen, but more something that develops if two compatible people are in an LTR together).

For me at least, being a DJ (or progessing towards being one) is all about getting over the initial guards that women tend to have against men. This is multi-faceted, for example there is the physical barrier to get through (solved by kino escalation), there's the trust barrier (when she starts confiding in you), etc.

After establishing a real relationship, then you get to see each other for who you truly are and that's when, if you two are compatible, you can experience what one could call "true love"

(take what I say with a grain of salt as I can be a bit of an idealist when it comes to these things)
 
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