"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TRUE IOI's?

The LadyKiller

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After reading DiegoSantori's thread about teases and attention-wh*res (and realizing I am a victim of the same problem) here (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=224837), I wanted to ask what girls will do to show true, actual interest. And I don't mean something obvious like getting a lay, etc. More discreet things you can see everyday - a HB initiating an interaction, a HB remembering and asking you about certain things, picking you up when you're down, etc.

Are there surefire indicators you detect? Perhaps there is a thing or two I can pick up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Zapp Brannigan

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True IOI's don't exist anymore sadly.

The phony manipulator type who entertains any and all male attention with fake signs of interest/affection are able to fake every IOI. I've seen them do just about everything, even the lesser known stuff like smiling and looking down after you make and hold eye contact.

You're just going to have to read into the female you're dealing with before seeing anything as a IOI. If she's an attention seeker (lot's of male "friends", attention wh0res online, etc) chances are it's all fake. But if she's a normal and nice girl without an ego chances are any IOI is legit.
 

BrainDamage92

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Thats why you should always make a move when you see signals. If shes all like "Wow wtf are you doing" dont get baited into appologising tell her she gave you the signal and she damn well knows it.

Also if you know she is in a serious relationship (lol) dont play there. Have some dignity. Ive had girls turn me down couse "their heart is taken" but there is no man beside her. See that has happened to me too, a person who is very far away, still, I dont feel right sleeping around with other people. So they are similar to us in some ways.

Just make your move dont be hesitant and dont deal with women who have a man by their side its not correct and what goes around comes back around.
 

sylvester the cat

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Last of the Alphas said:
The only IOI is when she's screaming your name while riding you like a pornstar.
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Even that's not guaranteed when you consider the woman that brought you here. Didn't you sleep with her only for her to go back to her ex?
 

MillionBillionaire

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There is a certain nervous laugh / giggle a girl makes when she is highly attracted that is really hard to fake because you can hear the nervous butterflies behind the voice.

Other than that.. eye contact.. kino.. smiling and kissing can be faked... they are a womans weapon for attention wh0ring.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LMFAO

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It's true that the only real ioi is your c0ck in her vagina.
 

Bingo-Player

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i think that looking for IOI's is pointless

a chicks either gonna be prepared to sleep with you or she's not , perhaps Ive gotten to relaxed with my game but il know within 20 mins wether a chick is DTF or not

it dosent matter if she's twirling her hair or getting gooey eyed you still gotta be able to walk the walk to get her legs spread

forget about IOI's focus on what image YOU are portraying
 
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