TRUE Indifference

[GS750]

Haha even Morgan Freeman, who is one of my favorite actors, says "don't chase women, they'll chase you".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ojY6ZvciXg

 

[Jair213]

There is lots of talk about being indifferent but with most men its a bullsh!t game of passive-aggressive faggotry.

This is an example of true indifference actually posted by someone on CityData.com. The site (like most others) is filled with white knights, beta fags and shaming feminist c*nts. However, I like to check it sometimes to see whats new in my area (bars, clubs, events, restaurants, etc.)

Anyway read this --> http://www.city-data.com/forum/relationships/2001602-why-neglecting-women-works.html

You will see many c*nts and faggots shaming the guy (which is to be expected) but the post shows TRUE indifference and the power that comes from it.

Readin that it Was like I wrote it My self. Ive beinng experimenting with this with similar results.. But girls Dont give me the same reaction when I look at them compare To how they look at that guy . They actually would smile at me Or try To talk To me Then I would withdraw the attention
Ive bein giving them with My bodylanguage and they end up going nuts lol

 

[sylvester the cat]

Haha even Morgan Freeman, who is one of my favorite actors, says "don't chase women, they'll chase you".

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9ojY6ZvciXg

hahaha. i'm sure being a famous hollywood actor has nothing to do with it.

 

[GS750]

nah that's got nothing to do with it haha

 

[sylvester the cat]

If you want to find out how indifferent you really are, dress as a hobo, sit on the street and beg for spare change for a day. see how long you would last.

 

[Serenity]

Indifference is combining the best of a nice guy and the best of a jerk, you end up with a paradoxical behavior that intrigues women and people in general. You become a respectful jerk and a nice guy who doesn't put up with bull****. Just the fact that they can't categorize you drives them crazy to find out who you are.

Indifference can be interpreted in many ways. You will know without questions when you got it right, but you can't explain it for others to understand easily.

 

[SteR]

I totally agree with this but I believe it only works if you're a man of value. It's very easy for a loser to be indifferent but that won't have the same affect as if top tier guy did the same thing..

 

[synergy1]

total indifference won't get you anywhere if you have no status or anything to back it up. People want a quick fix to things and think that totally ignoring will be the ticket. I can speak to this for my location but total indifference won't get you anywhere at all. Top tier women already have a sea of prospects and won't bat an eyelash at a random dude with nothing going for him ( I mean not being exceptionally good looking, etc).

 

[Serenity]

I totally agree with this but I believe it only works if you're a man of value. It's very easy for a loser to be indifferent but that won't have the same affect as if top tier guy did the same thing..

I'm living proof that this is not true. I got a pretty normal job, few friends, not athletic and I don't do much really. Yet I can nail indifference in such a way that women come running from all directions. I know a guy who has even less than me and got a child at young age, he's completely oblivious to the connection between that and his self-worth.

As I mentioned earlier there are 2 ways to be indifferent. One where you don't even care about social contact, and one where you engage but remain emotionally detached.

How you think of indifference depends on your perspective, and that's the source of confusion when discussing it.

 

[PlayHer Man]

I'm living proof that this is not true. I got a pretty normal job, few friends, not athletic and I don't do much really. Yet I can nail indifference in such a way that women come running from all directions. I know a guy who has even less than me and got a child at young age, he's completely oblivious to the connection between that and his self-worth.

As I mentioned earlier there are 2 ways to be indifferent. One where you don't even care about social contact, and one where you engage but remain emotionally detached.

How you think of indifference depends on your perspective, and that's the source of confusion when discussing it.

Of course.. if you look homeless and dirty indifference won't work (except for on homeless chicks).. but those are extreme examples.

The thing a lot of men don't get about women and value is that its more about perception than reality. A strange woman you just met has NO WAY of knowing what your value is. If you're tall, good looking and well dressed that will obviously count for you. But if you look within the range of normal.. she can only go by how you act and your overall attitude.

Since most men are faggots and don't have an indifferent bone in their body.. any man who doesn't seem to give a sh!t about women will intrigue them. Women will assume you must have value if you're not chasing women. A man who is not chasing woman MUST have women chasing him (this is what they assume).

So indifference creates the perception of value. Your actual value doesn't matter. It also helps if your overall opinion of women is low and you only see them as something to stick your d!ck into.

I believe I've mastered the art of aggressive indifference. Meaning.. I'm bold and flirtatious with women.. but they can tell its shallow and I don't give a sh!t about them. They can tell I have the attention span of a fly and if they don't follow my lead I will forget they exist pretty fast. You know --> NEXT. :crackup:

Try this yourself --> Flirt aggressively with a HB9 or 10. Then walk away while she is still talking to you and start talking to a friend or someone else. Drives the hamster crazy. :crazy:

 

[Driggs]

I think the best frame of mind is amused mastery, along with ignoring her for periods of time.

Actually when I have the best results my mindset is almost completely one of teasing her and making fun of her. Twist around anything she says. This is especially effective if she is being b1tchy, just treat it like a joke and make fun of her like she's a little girl.

 

[GS750]

I like to do that too. When a girl asks "why can't you just give me a straight answer?" or "why are you being so evasive? Just answer the question", I just say "because this is more fun" with a smirk.