"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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Lordeterra

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Is NOT chasing chicks. It’s creating your own reality. You may think you’ve been done wrong or any other balls hit you tell yourself but you have the control to REDPOND appropriately. You shape your perspective. What women taught me is that by chasing them you lose sight of your own destiny and they will only be loyal to a man chasing his own faith and dreams. You will be more fulfilled this way. Living the way YOU want to. Writing your own rules to EVERYTHING. You are the God of your own reality. The king, if you will. YOU determine what goes down. This is a leader. If you get to this place you’ll find that men will respect you and woman won’t be able to hide their attraction for you. You can’t simply try to be dominant. You have to BE dominant. This isn’t being some caveman but something more. It means taking responsibility for your life and results. This is true dominance. Someone who is hysterical is NOT dominant. They are the opposite. They are submissive to their emotions. You have to be the opposite. Be calm cool and collected and act through your own intention and the world and women will reward you by opening up to your love.
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Anything that can bring you joy and peace WITHOUT having to rely on any kind of external source (women included), is classified as "True Happiness".
 

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Is NOT chasing chicks. It’s creating your own reality. You may think you’ve been done wrong or any other balls hit you tell yourself but you have the control to REDPOND appropriately. You shape your perspective. What women taught me is that by chasing them you lose sight of your own destiny and they will only be loyal to a man chasing his own faith and dreams. You will be more fulfilled this way. Living the way YOU want to. Writing your own rules to EVERYTHING. You are the God of your own reality. The king, if you will. YOU determine what goes down. This is a leader. If you get to this place you’ll find that men will respect you and woman won’t be able to hide their attraction for you. You can’t simply try to be dominant. You have to BE dominant. This isn’t being some caveman but something more. It means taking responsibility for your life and results. This is true dominance. Someone who is hysterical is NOT dominant. They are the opposite. They are submissive to their emotions. You have to be the opposite. Be calm cool and collected and act through your own intention and the world and women will reward you by opening up to your love.
Be m
Amen brother, this post should be in the Hall Of Excellence. This is exactly what I've been thinking lately, so your post is like one big synchronicity to confirm it.
 
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