There's this concept going around on youtube.com called "true forced lonliness" The phrase seems to mean that one is forced by the people around them to be alone. The people supporting this idea seem to be extremely anti-feminist and very bitter towards life in general. They claim that changing for women is a horrible thing to do, but speak nothing about changing for yourself. One of the guys is about 500 lbs. My concern is that people on this site are falling into this idea because there have been multiple links to the youtube videos and I am wondering why. This philosophy is pretty much the opposite of sosuave, and it's really dangerous to our more susceptible members who are looking for an easy way to blame someone else for the way their life is going. I just hope none of you believe in this crap. If anyone wants to shed more light feel free...