"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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true DJ's come back here and clean house!

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This board is infected with AFC skum and women giving advice to people. WHERE ARE ALL THE DJ's? come back now and clean this sh!t hole up!

I guess all the true DJ's are out on the town with thier women. oh well.
I feel sorry for all the newbies here


READ THE DJ BIBLE PEOPLE. SIGN UP FOR BOOT CAMP BECAUSE YOU ALL F-ING NEED IT!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ddkevin,

I read your current thread, and people were giving you good advice, but i think they misundersttod what you were trying to convey to them. You have to quit lashing out at them and take it as a grain of salt, it's no big deal.

You need to stay on this board, if you have greater insight and correct the error of their ways, instead of rebuking them so much!
 
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Everytime I see a thread like this, I'm offended. Makes me feel everything I type is worth sh*t here.

3 years I've been here. Know what's missing?
It's not the "true DJs". What's missing is the followup reports of every noob that asks and gets advice on thier situation.

In the last few months I've atually been active on these boards, I've read VERY FEW follow up reports on how it all went after the advice was given.

There are no true DJ's because no one is confirming what has worked and what has not.

Last but not least, the f*ckng bible is no indicator between DJ and chump in some circles around here. An experienced guy can break many rules. Personally, I'm pretty pissed I got "bible advice" on my help thread. It's insulting to some extent.
 
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Coldcoal, you are right, we need to start demanding some follow trough and feedback on advice taken!

Don't let the comment of one person emotionally influence your thinking. Any good avice you give to a person is a contribution, regardless of the sentiments of one person.
 

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Absolutely well-said, you two.


It is important that you concentrate on being a part of the solution. No matter how much you scream and holler, people will not jump in this site with an S on their chest to save the day. Use your own experience to help out around here to develop more experienced DJs.

I think within the last few weeks, I have seen some positive changes around here. There seems to be more sound advice with a little less insult exchanges in these threads. I didn't even post in this section until I noticed this turn up and decide to help be a part of the solution.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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yeah........

We should be welcoming our Afc brothers (and possibly sisters) because at least they are trying, and also want to learn becasue they aren't afraid to ask questions most would be afraid to post. Besides the bible doesn't answer ALL questions, im sure there is new stuff that needs to be put in there......even the best dj's here had to start from the bottom, its just like learning to walk, the Martial Arts, and swimming, we have to learn to stand, learn teh basic punches and blocks, and learn how to float before we can run, do kata's, and dive into the deep end.....so give these kids a chance and stop flaming them for every question they ask, who knows, they may help out master dj's one day...
 
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